"Ghostbusters: Frozen Empire" and More!

[I review the new Ghostbusters movie - "Ghostbusters: Frozen Empire" - as well as "Society of the Snow" and "Falling for Figaro."  And there's a book too! - "Hits, Flops and Other Illusions: My Forty Something Years in Hollywood" by Ed Zwick]

Ghostbusters: Frozen Empire (2024)

Ghostbusters is now a family affair and this time they need to save the world from a second Ice Age.

If you have been following me, you know how much I hate sequels.  

And even if you haven't been following me, now you know.  So why did I go see this movie, then, you ask?  Well, at this point, this film is more a part of a franchise than a sequel, like "Mission Impossible" or "Jurassic Park," so I am going to give it a pass on the sequel thing.  And even though I am not particularly a fan of franchises, also known as "beating a good idea into the ground," I am not going to pick on this movie for that either.  It's the fifth in the series, but in my opinion, the second, third and fourth installments don't really count.  They weren't very good.  

Besides, it's been 40 years...repeat, 40 years...since the very first "Ghostbusters," a movie that became a cultural phenomenon. It was critically acclaimed, cementing the movie careers of Bill Murray and Dan Ackroyd, it was the first comedy to employ expensive special effects, and it was number one at the box office for seven consecutive weeks making it the then-highest-grossing comedy ever. And let's not forget that iconic theme song, which became a number one hit. 

And 40 years later, it's number one at the box office again, so I had to pay homage.  Was it worth it?

Well...first let me bring you up to date.

If you saw "Ghostbusters: Afterlife," we were introduced to Callie Spengler (Carrie Coon) and her kids, Phoebe (Mckenna Grace) and Trevor (Finn Wolfhard), who were living in Oklahoma after inheriting the farm where Ghostbuster Egon Spengler had lived and which also served as a plot device and homage after the real life death of Harold Ramis, who played Egon. Turns out the farmhouse is haunted and the surviving Ghostbusters are called and, along with Phoebe's science teacher, Gary Grooberson (Paul Rudd), they all rid the farm of the harmful entities.

Okay, that's what has happened before this latest film begins, so fast forward to present day. Now Callie and Gary are a couple and they are living in New York City with Trevor and Phoebe.  The OG's have retired and ghostbusting has become a family affair for Callie, Gary and the kids. They are all living in the original Ghostbusters firehouse that original Ghostbuster Winston (Ernie Hudson) had restored when he became a rich entrepreneur and Callie et al have taken on the responsibility of keeping New York City free of nasty paranormal beings. Original Ghostbuster Ray (Ackroyd) has a book shop - Ray's Occult Books - where he also collects rare cursed artifacts with the help of Podcast (Logan Kim) and Winston has a privately-owned paranormal research center staffed by Dr. Lars Pinfield (James Acaster) and his assistant, Lucky Domingo (Celeste O'Connor).  Not sure what Peter (Murray) is doing in retirement but he appears briefly to administer a parapsychological evaluation on Nadeem Razmaadi (Kuymail Nanjiani).  But I am getting ahead of myself.

Written by Gil Kenan and Jason Reitman and directed by Kenan, the film opens in 1904 when New York City firefighters find over 30 people frozen to death in a gentleman's club and there is this mysterious orb that seems to have something to do with that.

Now in the present day, Nadeem Razmaadi (Nanjiani), a rather sleazy huckster, comes into Ray's shop to sell some old items that belonged to his grandmother.  Okay, you guessed it.  It's that same orb we just saw in the opening scene and that, my friends, is the crux of the movie.  The orb houses a very, very bad ancient god who wants to turn the world to ice and our Ghostbusters, old and new, have to figure out how to destroy it.

There is a side story about Phoebe meeting another young woman, Melody (Emily Alyn Lind), while playing chess with herself in Central Park.  Melody just so happens to be a ghost trying to get to the other side to be with her family, and Nadeem turns out to have some pyrokinetic powers and both of those characters will play pivotal roles in the finale when they all meet up with Garraka, an evil entity who had been enslaved in the orb.

So, 40 years later did this reboot do justice to the OG movie?  Was it worth seeing?

Well, let me focus on the positive first...what I liked.

The opening chase scene was fun, I like Paul Rudd and I LOVE Kumail Nanjiani. I laugh just looking at his reactions to things and his dry delivery. The young characters are engaging and it's always a treat to see the OG Ghostbusters again along with Annie Potts, who have more to do this time than they did in "Afterlife," except for Potts. The special effects were also good - those gross, gooey ghosts are fun - and I love the scenes in the New York Public Library and Patton Oswald as a librarian. We librarians need to be in the movies!

What I didn't like:

Plot holes, too many "huh?" moments, it dragged in the middle, and it wasn't that funny, though I will say I did chuckle a few times, which is more than I can say about the many comedies I have watched over the last couple of years. I could also have done without the shushing ghost librarian in the library.  People, librarians no longer shush people! I was hoping to see more of Bill Murray. Murray's appearance was too brief but not surprising since he was never particularly interested in the reboots. And I can't believe I am saying this, but I was really hoping the iconic theme song would have shown up during the movie instead of at the end. Speaking of the end, there is a bit of an epilogue but you will have to sit through quite a bit of the end credits to see it.

All in all, better than the ones that came after the original, but, of course, nothing can reach the iconic status of the original.  That first one made a huge impact on us younguns in the 80's and as I always say about sequels...let us remember that great first one.  But it was good to see the OGs again. 

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you can ignore the plot holes, it was entertaining...ish. And remember, for your movie reviews, who you gonna call? (In theatres)

Society of the Snow (La sociedad de la Nieve) (2023)

Dramatization of the aftermath of the 1972 plane crash that stranded a Uruguayan rugby team in the Andes.

Nominated this year for an Oscar for Best International Feature, this Spanish film is an enactment of the true story of the plane crash of the Uruguayan rugby team headed for Chile and what they had to do to survive.  It attempts to explain how that plane crash might have happened in a harrowing scene just fifteen minutes into the film when the plane hits a mountain peak, breaks apart and skids to a landing upside down in a remote part of the Andes. There were 45 passengers and crew, nine died on impact.  The survivors make it through the freezing night only to be faced with the magnitude of their situation. They are in the middle of nowhere and miles from civilization.  Over the next two hours we watch as 20 more die until only 16 survive. And those of you who remember this international incident, know that cannibalism played a role in the survival of those 16 people.

Directed by J.A. Bayona, who cowrote the script with Bernat Vilaplana and Jaime Marques, and based on the 2009 book of the same name by Uruguayan journalist Pablo Vierci, this is a more personal and detailed take on the event than the film "Alive," which was based on the book by Piers Paul Read that was written two years after the event and had more of a reportage slant. Also based on the stories of the actual survivors, this film tries to get to the heart of what was going on inside of the survivors.

Seen through the eyes of Numa Turcatti (Enzo Vogrincic), a member of the rugby team on board the plane, we see him and the others survive two avalanches, freezing temperatures and lack of food for two months and what lead them to make the difficult decisions they made.

This was a shocking incident that has since inspired similar films like "Alive" and TV series like "Yellowjackets" and "The Wilds," but this film does this fateful event justice, treating it with respect (each person's death is noted with their name), focusing not just on the sensational elements but also on the compassion and humanity that took place, but, be warned.  It is sometimes difficult to watch. 

Rosy the Reviewer says...perhaps too long and perhaps too grim for some, but it asks the question - what would you do? Would you be able to do what you had to do to survive? (Netflix - in Spanish with English subtitles) 

And now on a lighter note -

Falling for Figaro (2020)

Millie Cantwell, an American fund manager living in London, moves to the Scottish Highlands to fulfill a lifelong dream of becoming an opera singer.

Millie (Danielle McDonald)  quits her job and leaves her boyfriend in London and heads to a small Scottish village to train with ex-diva, Meghan Geoffrey-Bishop (Joanna Lumley)  in order to compete in the "Singer of Renown" contest.  She gives herself a year to prepare. However, there are some obstacles.

One of them is Jeoffrey-Bishop  herself who is, how shall I put this?  Less than encouraging? She tells Millie that some people say an opera singer needs to suffer and Meghan plans to make Millie suffer and she does with her diatribes and biting comments.  Millie also has to deal with Max (Hugh Skinner), who is one of Meghan's students...well, her only other one, and he is almost a surrogate son, who doesn't want Meghan concentrating on anyone else.  He has tried to win the "Singer of Renown" contest several times and has always been a runner up.  So he is not happy about the competition, not just for Meghan's attention but for the contest itself. And then there is The Filthy Pig Pub with its gruff landlord (Gary Lewis), its lack of amenities and nosy villagers. But Millie is determined to follow her dream. Will she make it?

Rom-com tropes are in evidence here. Two young people meeting and hating each other on sight but then, well, you know.  Giving up everything to follow a dream. A love triangle. Obstacles. A beautiful landscape and a village full of eccentric people inexplicably interested in opera and rooting for our hero and heroine. And a happy ending.

In case you think McDonald is a newbie, you would be wrong.  She has starred as Patti in "Patticake$" as well as in "Dumplin" and "Bird Box" and the TV series "The Tourist."  It's refreshing to see a successful actress who looks like a regular woman.

Written by Ben Lewin and Allen Palmer and directed by Lewis, this is an Australian-British collaboration and both countries are great at producing small but charming films, and this is that and more with wonderful performances by Aussie Danielle McDonald (her American accent is perfect) and that actress of renown, Joanna Lumley.

Rosy the Reviewer says...it helps if you love opera (which I do), because there is a lot of it here, but you don't have to love opera to enjoy this film. You will love the acting, the feelgood moments and the beautiful Scottish countryside. (Netflix)

***Book of the Week***

“Hits, Flops and Other Illusions: My 40 Something Years in Hollywood” by Ed Zwick.

Director Zwick shares his award-winning career in this candid and self-deprecating memoir.

Co-creator of the ABC family drama “thirtysomething” when he was appropriately in his 30’s, he went on to a movie career, directing such films as “About Last Night” (1986), “Glory” (1989), “Legends of the Fall” (1994), “The Last Samurai” and others. He also was a producer for “Shakespeare in Love,” which won an Oscar for Best Picture.

Starting out in the theatre, when he got his break in TV and movies, he had to learn the difference, especially when it came to directing actors. Director Sydney Pollack mentored him and Zwick shares his ups and downs as he climbed the cinematic ladder. The book is punctuated with lists of directorial advice and what he has learned – e.g. “Ten Tips From Long Lunches With Sydney [Pollack],” “Eight Helpful Hints For Young Directors,” “Ten Things Every Director Needs To Know,” and “Ten Tall Tales From The Makeup Chair.”

Zwick also takes the reader behind-the-scenes of “thirtysomething” and his many films, with no-holds barred when it comes to revealing funny and sometimes not very complimentary observations about the actors and others he has worked with, such as directing Tom Cruise and Denzel Washington and working with Harvey Weinstein. And can you imagine Julia Roberts and Daniel Day Lewis in “Shakespeare in Love?” He also shares Hollywood anecdotes, such as director Frank Pierson’s reply when asked what it was like to direct Barbra Streisand in the 1976 version of “A Star is Born” – “I wouldn’t know.” Lol

Rosy the Reviewer says…if you like fun and revealing Hollywood memoirs, you will enjoy this but his insights into directing will also appeal to film students and filmmakers alike. (Check it out at your local library)

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What I'm Watching Now

 [I review the TV series "Feud: Capote vs. The Swans," "The New Look" and "Regime"]

Feud: Capote vs. The Swans (2024)

Based on the book "Capote's Women" by Lawrence Leamer, a docuseries about writer Truman Capote's falling out with his society "girlfriends."

This is the second season of an anthology series about famous feuds created by Ryan Murphy, Jaffe Cohen, and Michael Zam for FX (the first was the famous feud between Bette Davis and Joan Crawford). Directed by Gus Van Zant, and written by Jon Robin Baitz, it tells the story of how Truman Capote (played by Tom Hollander), ruined his friendships with a group of New York socialites dubbed "The Swans" by writing a thinly veiled novel called "Answered Prayers" about their lives, scandals and all.  

Though Truman Capote wrote "Breakfast at Tiffany's," people are probably more familiar with the movie version of that than his novella.  But Capote's real fame came from his nonfiction true crime book "In Cold Blood." With his fame, he embraced a jet set lifestyle in the 60's and 70's, partying at Studio 54 and hanging out with New York City's famous socialites: Babe Paley (Naomi Watts), Slim Keith (Diane Lane), C.Z. Guest (Chloe Sevigny), Lee Radziwill (Calista Flockhart) and others, all of whom were his close friends. His Black and White Ball in 1966 was the talk of the town and cemented his place in high society. 

Capote was openly gay, nastily funny and endlessly amusing to these ladies who loved having a man to accompany them to events when needed without having to worry about any sexual situations.  They also shared their deepest, darkest secrets with him over lunch at their favorite restaurant, La Cote Basque. So when Truman turned around and shared those secrets in a chapter from the book he was working on that starred thinly disguised versions of these ladies - "La Cote Basque 1965" - and it was published in Esquire, the ladies recognized themselves, and all hell broke loose.  They not only cut Truman off but declared they would get revenge.  And sadly on some level they did because Truman was ostracized, let his drinking get the better of him, and died an ignominious early death never completing "Answered Prayers."

The series follows Truman and his Swans from the happy beginning to the sad end. 

The Swans:

Babe Paley - wife of William S. Paley, head of CBS, back when there were only three television networks. Babe was always #1 on the Best Dressed lists but sadly had to fight cancer. She also sadly had a philandering husband.

Slim Keith - famously married to director Howard Hawks, then producer Leland Hayward and finally to a British Baron, Kenneth Keith, Baron of Castleacre.  Born in Salinas, California, she was another fashion icon who had no problem sleeping with Babe's husband.

C.Z. Guest - an ex-debutante, she married William Frederick Churchill Guest, a rich guy whose mother was first cousin to Winston Churchill.  Ernest Hemingway was best man at their wedding.  She, too, another fashionista.

Lee Radziwill - Jackie Kennedy's sister.  Lee's second husband was a sort of a prince so she started calling herself Princess and was often called Princess Radziwill in the press.  Her third husband was director Herbert Ross.

There are also additional famous characters played by other famous actresses: Ann Woodward (Demi Moore), who famously shot her rich husband, supposedly thinking he was an intruder and, when prosecuted, got off; Joanne Carson (Molly Ringwald), Johnny Carson's ex-wife, who let Truman stay in her guest house in LA when no one else would have anything to do with him; and Jessica Lange as Truman's mother.

I very much remember Capote, his New York City antics and his "Swans."  He was a popular guest on late night talk shows and was always outrageous.  He also had a feud with Gore Vidal that was notorious and funny.  

Because of Capote's literary fame, most people remember him.  However, despite the fact that these women were very famous in their day, especially if you followed the fashion mags (which I did), I couldn't help but think while watching this series, how many people remember these women today?  And there is all kinds of name-dropping and references to incidents in the 60's and 70's that might go over the heads of most younger people, but if you are of a certain age and followed the fashion mags and gossip columns back in the day (I mean, what else was there to do then?  No Internet yet), you will enjoy this.  It's Ryan Murphy at his snarky best, not to mention director Gus Van Zant's expert directorial hand in all of this.  The production values capturing the era are first rate and the arty opening credits alone are worth your time.

This all-star cast of women is just wonderful and the acting stellar, especially Naomi Watts, but it's a tour de force for Hollander, whose performance embodies Capote. He deserves accolades for it. Sadly, this was Treat Williams' final performance (as Bill Paley) before a motorcycle accident took his life.

Whether you knew who these people were or not, it doesn't really matter. You will benefit from watching this wonderful series that reminds us that no matter our station in life, rich or poor or somewhere in between, we all suffer from the human condition: love, friendship, jealousy, betrayal, revenge, sickness and death. It's all there.  It's our lives.

Rosy the Reviewer says...if Tom Hollander doesn't win an Emmy for his portrayal of Capote, I will eat my copy of "In Cold Blood!" (Hulu)

The New Look  (2024)

A biopic about designer Christian Dior and what he had to go through to create his "New Look"  which breathed life into the fashion world after the austerity of WW II.

Set against the backdrop of the Nazi occupation of Paris during WW II and based on real-life events, this series tells the story of designer Christian Dior (Ben Mendelsohn) and how he rose to fame with his "New Look."

So what was "The New Look?"

During the austerity of WW II, women's clothes had a masculine, utilitarian, oppressed feel that reflected the hardships of the War. 

Coming out of the war, The New Look celebrated femininity, elegance, freedom and a return to abundance.  It was a silhouette characterized by broad shoulders, a narrow waist and a full skirt.

But this series is not just about fashion.

The Nazis occupied Paris for four years during WW II.  People did what they could to survive.  Some formed a resistance, some collaborated.  Christian Dior was a young designer trying to make a name for himself working for designer Lucien LeLong (John Malkovich) and was forced to make dresses for Nazi wives and girlfriends.  However, his sister, Catherine (Maisie Williams), was involved with The Resistance, and this series is as much about her and what she went through as it is about Christian and his fashion career.

In contrast, the series, created by Todd A. Kessler, also focuses on Coco Chanel.  She took a different path during the occupation.  History has indicated she was an antisemite and a willing Nazi collaborator. Was she?  Or did she make certain decisions to survive? The series is a bit wish-washy on that.

But Juliette Binoche is anything but wish-washy as Coco Chanel.  She chews up the scenery in a very, very good way. When she is on screen the series sings. Mendelsohn as Dior is a bit of a sad sack throughout but that was probably a creative choice on his part or of the creators as Dior was a closeted gay man trying to keep going during the Nazi occupation with his sister in a prison camp. And the story of Dior's sister is one that is not well known.  She was tortured in a prison camp for her work with the Resistance and after her release struggled with what she had endured there. There is a particularly poignant moment in the series when Dior names his perfume after her - "Miss Dior."  Now we know who she was.

All in all, the War took a toll on those who lived through it, but "The New Look" as a fashion statement was also a metaphor for better times to come after a war of sacrifice and scarcity. And, though it could have been a bit shorter, this series is a powerful reminder of what people went through during that war.

Rosy the Reviewer says...despite the controversial take on Chanel, it's a stylish new look at fashion history with great performances. (Apple+) 

The Regime (2024)

The head of a small European nation has many personal issues, such as being a despot, a bully and not very smart, and did I say crazy? Those and other issues cause her country to unravel.  Easy to draw some comparisons, yes?

Kate Winslet seems to have a lock on HBO.  She killed in "Mildred Pierce" and "Mare of Easttown" and here she plays Elena Vernham, the despot of a small European country, in another amazing performance.  

Despite running a country, Elena isn't all there.  Because her father died of lung disease, she is obsessed with the mold levels in her palace and has it endlessly tested, hiring Herbert (Matthias Schoenaerts), a soldier with a brutal history, to follow her around measuring for mold at every step.  He is a handsome lunk of a guy and you can see where this is headed - sex and our soldier working his way up. Then Elena discovers potato steam. Don't ask. That's just the beginning of her eccentricities. And speaking of Elena's father.  His well-preserved corpse is kept in a glass coffin so Elena can have tete-a-tetes with him.  I could go on and on. Elena is a mess and everything is about to go to hell.  And she is poised to be taken over by Herbert, a modern day Rasputin with populist views. A civil war breaks out and things don't look good for Elena or Herbert.

Created by Will Tracy and directed by Stephen Frears and Jessica Hobbs, this is a comedy satire but Winslet plays it straight. It's also very, very strange.  Whether or not this series hits a home run with statements about politics and the state of the world is beside the point.  It's all about Winslet's performance which is a lot of fun. And I just love her lisp. Hugh Grant shows up in episode four in a cameo as the imprisoned ex-chancellor and it's always good to see him.

Rosy the Reviewer says..."People Magazine" loved this; "TV Guide" gave it a thumbs down.  However, I enjoyed it. It's over-the-top but strangely amusing. (HBO and HBO Max)

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What I Learned On My Spring Vacation

Okay, it's not exactly spring and, it wasn't exactly a vacation because, since I am now retired, every day is a kind of vacation, but Hubby and I left town and traveled back East to Richmond, Virginia to visit family, and it was a total of 12 hours in the air round trip.  I am not a fan of flying, especially for that long, so what does one do with that much time on one's hands? 

I binged and I read!

***The Binge***

One Day (2024)

A 14-episode British series that follows Emma and Dexter on the same day for 20 years - from graduation from the University of Edinburgh to...well, you will just have to watch and find out.

Emma (Ambika Mod) is a serious, hard-working, top-of-the-class, but sarcastic young Indian woman who meets Dexter (Leo Woodall, who you might recognize from "The White Lotus"), a privileged, handsome, kind, but rather shallow playboy, who is drop dead gorgeous (that last bit is me talking).  The two "meet cute" on July 15, 1988, right before graduation from the University of Edinburgh and spend the day and night together.  They know that after graduation they will both go their separate ways, which they do, but, despite the fact that they are polar opposites in many ways, they can't forget about each other and their lives entwine as the series checks in on them on that same day - July 15 - for the next 20 years.

Emma dabbles in the theatre, becomes a teacher and struggles to find her way as a writer while Dexter becomes a controversial TV presenter (that's a TV host to us Americans) on a not-very-important TV show (it's a video game review show) and struggles with family issues, unemployment, drinking and other self destructive tendencies. But both find other loves and remain friends and confidants, always coming close to getting together, but the time never seems right. Will the time ever be right? 

Created by Nicole Taylor and based on the novel by David Nichols, this is one of those opposites attract tales where two young people meet and are attracted to each other, but it's never the right time to be in love.  You watch because you want to know if they will ever get together. It reminded me of "Normal People," another series I loved.

The series takes place in various spots around England with some other exotic locales thrown in, the throwback to the 80's and 90's well done, the music is emotionally and pop culturally fitting and the two actors are attractive and engaging, especially Woodall, who is, ahem, did I already say?...rather delightfully handsome.

And if you think you don't need to see this because you saw the 2011 movie version, and especially if you didn't like the movie, give this a chance. This adaptation, the actors and the episodic format works much better to bring this love story to life and let you get to know these characters, and you will enjoy spending time with these characters on every one of those days.

"Imagine one selected day struck out of it, and think how different its course would have been. Pause you who read this, and think for a moment of the long chain of iron or gold, of thorns or flowers, that would never have bound you, but for the formation of the first link on one memorable day.” - Charles Dickens

Rosy the Reviewer says...a little bit of a Gen X mashup between "Same Time Next Year" and "The Way We Were" that all ages will find charming and a reminder that no matter what happens, value each day.  Have tissues handy. (Netflix)

Love is Blind, Season 6 (2024)

This is a "social experiment" reality show hosted by Nick Lachey and his wife, Vanessa, where men and women "date" each other in "pods," talk to each other through a speaker but not see each other, and fall in love? 

Okay, I know, I know.  You know me as a serious, intellectual who doesn't suffer fools, right? (lol) So what am I doing watching this show? Well, like all of you, I have my weaknesses and dating shows is one of them.  I know you are judging me, and I totally understand because when I was in college, I was totally enamored of a philosophy major who I thought was just the smartest and deepest man I had ever met.  But then he told me that his favorite movie was "The Love Bug," and that was it. I lost all respect for him.  So go ahead and judge me.  I totally understand. BUT, here is what I have learned.  "Judge and ye shall be judged," right?  Because here I am watching this show, my own little "love bug."  And you know what?  I would bet you have one too! 

Anyway, as for "Love is Blind," men and women come and go out of "pods," rooms where they can stretch out, have a cocktail, eat, exercise, and talk to their "dates" on the other side of a wall.  And they talk and talk and talk and eventually they may or may not declare their love for each other, based on the fact that they are so simpatico from all of that talking. "Here is someone who gets me."  If that happens, they become engaged, and they finally get to see each other in person. And that's when the trouble sometimes begins.  Those who hook up go off on a retreat and eventually move in together.  Some stay together and some relationships go to hell because, yes, we were soul mates when talking but now that I see you?  Don't really want to have sex with you. Uh-oh.  Not fun.  But fun for us, right?

I am not the only person who enjoys this show.

This is a popular series around the world.  The American version is now in its sixth series, and there are also Swedish, Japanese and Brazilian versions, all available on Netflix, and all of which I have watched or will watch because, hey, people, it's fun. And I know those of you who stick your noses up at reality TV because you don't believe it's real, you are right to a certain extent.  There is usually a plan about how it should go, but people just can't help themselves or hide who they really are and no matter what is scripted, something interesting, and real, usually transpires.  

And why do I watch?

I know I was making fun earlier, but the human condition, especially when it comes to love and, er, sex, is very interesting to me. I am just fascinated by how people react to each other, how they say one thing about what they want and then, when the reality sets in, not so much.  Also, I find it interesting what people are willing to expose on camera. To me, these kinds of shows say a lot about the human condition, that whether you are in Sweden or Japan or Brazil, the same issues crop up.  We are all more the same than we are different when it comes to human interaction, and I find that fascinating...and like I said, fun!  

And truth be told, I have to admit, sometimes I just want to watch TV shows that don't require a lot of thinking from me! Don't you?

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you enjoy reality dating shows, this is a fun and interesting one. It's kind of like "Married at First Sight (which I also enjoy)" but less sight.  (Netflix).

So now that you are over the shock that I watch reality dating shows, we can get back to my more serious, intellectual side.  I also read books!

***The Read***

Outofshapeworthlessloser: A Memoir of Figure Skating, F*cking Up and Figuring it Out by Gracie Gold (2024)

The subtitle tells it all as Gracie Gold, 2014 Olympic Team bronze medalist, the 2014 NHK champion, the 2015 Trophee Eric Bompard champion, and a two-time U.S. National champion (2014, 2016), shares her experiences as a world class figure skater. And it's not pretty.

Gold, with her cute little blonde hair bun, was likened to Grace Kelly and was the face of women's figure skating in the mid-2000's.  She had it all - the looks, the body, the skill. She had great success as a figure skater, but there was darkness behind the scenes. Gold reveals in this candid memoir that she was three people.  She was Grace Elizabeth, the young tomboy who had great athleticism and as a young girl wanted to play hockey; she was Gracie Gold, "America's Sweetheart" of figure skating; and she was also Outofshapeworthlessloser, the perfectionist, who had an eating disorder and suffered from anxiety and suicidal thoughts. 

Yes, there were highs like winning medals, being written up in magazines and baking cookies with Taylor Swift.  But the lows were very low as she faced pressure from her coaches and the powers-that-be within the figure skating community to excel and, as injuries and an eating disorder threatened to derail her, her family was falling apart and her self-destructive inner voice kept calling her an "outofshapeworthless loser."  

Gold goes deep in sharing her story but she also reveals the dark side of figure skating, where young girls are expected to wear skimpy costumes and a smile no matter what. She exposes some stereotypes e.g. all male figure skaters are gay (not true) and the female are straight (also not true - she shares that she is bisexual).  She was also not so happy with commentators Tara Lipinski and Johnny Weir whose comments were often less than helpful when she was struggling.

As many of you probably know I am a huge figure skating fan and Gold was always a favorite of mine.  I feel bad for giving up on her when her career took a turn but I am glad she has taken control of her life, come to grips with her demons and pulled back the curtain to reveal a disturbing world behind the scenes of figure skating.

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you are a figure skating fan, you will definitely want to read this, but those of you who also like raw, revealing memoirs, this is one of those. (Check your local library)

***So, what did I learn?***

I learned that when confronted with a long plane ride or even hanging out in a motel room, it is essential to plan ahead and stock up on preferred TV and movie content and reading material before I leave home. I was able to watch those shows and read that book on the plane, because I had downloaded them all onto my trusty IPad, so I had content that needed no wi-fi. You can do that with your phone as well. Highly recommended. Movies and shows are easily downloaded from all of the main streaming services, and you can purchase and download reading material from Apple Books or other sources and/or download books for free through services provided by most libraries.

Oh, and here is something else I learned. I learned that budget airlines have lots and lots of kids on board! 

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