Friday, February 14, 2014

My Favorite Romantic Movies of All Time Just in Time for Valentine's Day - And The Week in Reviews

[I review "The Wolf of Wall Street" and DVDs "Closed Circuit" and "Runner Runner."]

But first

My Favorite Romantic Movies of All Time


Happy Valentine's Day!

If you didn't make dinner reservations in time or don't really have anything planned for tonight, why not cuddle up with your sweetie and watch one of these great romantic films?

Here are my all-time favorite romantic movies for your viewing pleasure, that I will try to summarize and review for you with my usual cheeky comments!


***How many of these have you seen?***



An Affair to Remember (1957)

Nickie, a playboy,  meets Terry on a cruise ship, they fall in love and because they are both engaged, decide that if they can extricate themselves from their current obligations, they will meet again in six months on top of the Empire State Building

After six months, in her haste to meet up with Nickie, Terry is hit by a car and paralyzed.  Of course Nickie thinks she has changed her mind.  And Terry does everything she can to keep her disability from him. All kinds of complications ensue until, guess?

The American Film Institute named this the most romantic film of all time.









Before Sunrise (1996)





A young man and woman meet on a train in Europe and wind up spending one evening together in Vienna. Unfortunately, both know that this will probably be their only night together.  But what a night!

This was the first of the "before" movies which include "Before Sunset (2004)" and "Before Midnight (2013)" starring Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy, who is also one of the writers.

Who knew two people talking could be so sexy and romantic?




Brief Encounter (1945)




The Granddaddy of all romantic films. 

If this tale of unrequited love doesn't make you cry, you have no heart!



Doctor Zhivago (1965)






Another married guy messing with other women but still...it's an affecting drama of love with the backdrop of the Russian Revolution.

"Lara's Theme" helps with the romantic element here, but also a beautiful Julie Christie and young Omar Sharif and that "ice palace" they lived in for a short romantic time...






The English Patient (1996)





Two stories run in parallel:  the nurse's story and the story of the ill-fated love affair of the badly burned patient she is tending to.

This is one of my all time favorite films, but I know it has its haters. Love or hate this film, the romance is hot, hot, hot and Ralph is hot, hot, hot and the story is sad, sad, sad.




Four Weddings and a Funeral (1994)





Weddings and funerals through the eyes of Charles, played by Hugh Grant.

Hugh Grant's bumbling is about as cute and romantic as it gets. He was the charmer of the 90's.

The big moment in this film from a librarian's point of view was the eulogy. 

Hordes of people came into the library wanting to know where it came from.  And remember, people, this was pre-Internet, meaning NO Internet.  We had to find this crap by looking through book after book after book.

So here it is:  It's "Funeral Blues" by W.H. Auden

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He is Dead.
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun,
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the woods;
For nothing now can ever come to any good. 


Moral:  If you are looking for love, attend some weddings and funerals.



The Ghost and Mrs. Muir (1947)





Is it possible to fall in love with a ghost?  Yes!






Jerry Maguire (1996)


"You had me at Hello" has become a catch phrase, but when Tom declared to Renee, "You complete me."  Sighhhhhhh




Last of the Mohicans (1992)





The classic James Fennimore Cooper novel come to life and boy does it. 

When Daniel Day Lewis as Hawkeye says to Cora (Madeleine Stowe),

"You stay alive, no matter what occurs! I will find you. No matter how long it takes, no matter how far, I will find you." 

I almost fell out of my seat, I swooned so much. 

His loincloth didn't hurt either. 

Take advantage of this because you don't see Daniel Day-Lewis in romantic roles that much these days.  He prefers to be an oddball.






Love Actually (2003)




Eight different couples deal with their love issues during a frantic Christmas season in London.

It's charming little Hugh again.  He was the romcom darling of the 1990's+.





Love is a Many Splendored Thing (1955)





This is what happens when you fall in love with a married man.

If this poster doesn't get you, the theme music will...

"Loooove....is a ma...ny splen...dored thing...." 

They pretty much act out this song.

Love is a many splendored thing
It's the April rose
That only grows in the early spring
Love is nature's way of giving
A reason to be living
The golden crown that makes a man a king
Once on a high and windy hill
In the morning mist
Two lovers kissed
And the world stood still
Then your fingers touched
My silent heart and taught it how to sing
Yes, true love's
A many splendored thing
Once on a high and windy hill
In the morning mist
Two lovers kissed
And the world stood still
Then your fingers touched
My silent heart and taught it how to sing
Yes, true love's
A many splendored thing




Love Story (1970)





Two college kids from opposite backgrounds fall in love after a lot of snappy patter. Everything is hunky dory until she develops a cough.

Ryan O'Neal was probably one of the most handsome actors of his day and Ali McGraw was no slouch, though she couldn't act worth a damn. 

(Possible spoiler:  though if you haven't read the book or seen this film where have you been?)

The moment where you will lose it:  at the end when Oliver gets up on the bed with Jenny in her last moments.



Notting Hill (1999)





A bookshop owner meets a famous actress.  Love ensues...eventually.

Beautiful London scenes and Hugh again.



Now, Voyager (1942)





A homely spinster takes off her glasses, spruces herself up and finds love.

Two of THE most classic romantic film moments: 

When Paul Henreid puts two cigarettes in his mouth and lights them and gives one to Bette.   It caused quite a stir.

The other at the end when Charlotte Vale says to Jerry, after everything she has been through, "Oh, Jerry, don't let's ask for the moon. We have the stars."

If that doesn't put a lump in your throat, nothing will.




An Officer and a Gentleman (1982)






The officer has to jump through quite a few hoops to become an aviator.

But he certainly is a handsome gentleman, especially when he lifts his beloved out of her dreary life and into his arms.

This is the film that brought fame to Louis Gossett Jr. for his portrayal of the tough sergeant and Richard Gere was at his most handsome and edgy.  Directed by Taylor Hackford, who directed "Ray" and other films.  He also happens to be Helen Mirren's husband.

"Love lifts you up where you belong..."




Sleepless in Seattle (1993)




The young son of a widowed architect who is grieving for his wife calls in to a late night talk show to try to find a new wife for his Dad.

Written and directed by Nora Ephron, this is a sort of homage to "An Affair to Remember," with the same excruciating miscommunication and characters just missing each other.


Splendor in the Grass (1961)




Young love, wrong side of the tracks, doom.

You can't have two more beautiful people fall in love than Warren Beatty and Natalie Wood.  They did in real life too and you can see it in the film.



Titanic (1997)




I know there are haters out there. C'mon haters.  How can a love story set against one of the most famous, dramatic and heart-breaking maritime tragedies fail?  It doesn't. 

Leo is one of our most underrated actors and I love Kate.  And for god's sake, it won Best Picture.  James Cameron pulled out all the stops when it came to the sinking of the ship.

 And love endures even after death. "The heart will go on!"



Umbrellas of Cherbourg (1964)






This is one of those love stories where two beautiful young people pledge their undying love and then he has to go off to war, not realizing she is pregnant. 

In those days, you needed to find a daddy for the baby (no baby daddies in the sixties). Life and circumstances intervene and when Guy returns, he discovers Genevieve has gotten married so he does likewise.  When they finally meet up again, it is too late.

And the entire movie is sung...in French. But it is gorgeous.  Catherine Deneuve, gorgeous cinematography and gorgeous music.  The music won three Academy Awards and I am sure you remember, "(If it takes forever) I will wait for you."



The Way We Were (1973)




This is what happens when a Republican marries a Democrat!

Another lush romantic theme song and score and one of the most poignant endings in romantic film history.  A similar ending to "The Umbrellas of Cherbourg," but more bittersweet.



Are there any I need to add to my list?



Now, The Week in Reviews

Based on the true story of Jordan Belfort, whose charisma and sales genius helped him rise to the top as a Wall Street stockbroker and whose high living lifestyle, and I mean high, and questionable business practices finally brought him down
As I say repeatedly, Leo DiCaprio is one of Hollywood's most underrated actors.  Hopefully he will be recognized for his incredible performance here.  The rest of the cast is first rate too. The screenplay is fantastic (rightly nominated for an Oscar for Best Adapted Screenplay) and Scorsese's direction is brilliant. 

It has all of the Scorcese touches:  humor, edgy characters, sex and the f-bomb thrown all over the place. 
It's a long film, but it's engrossing all of the way.  Watch for humorist Fran Lebowitz as a judge and the real Jordan Belfort when he introduces Leo in the closing scene.

Rosy the Reviewer says...Gritty, sometimes offensive, always brilliant.  One of the very best films of the year.



***DVDS***
You Might Have Missed
And Some You Should Be Glad You Did
(I see the bad ones so you don't have to)
In the UK, ex-lovers are forced to work together on a high profile terrorist case.

It stars Rebecca Hall and Eric Bana, two wonderful actors who have not yet reached stardom.  They will.


Rosy the Reviewer says...This is one of the best movies of 2013 that you didn't see.  See it!




Runner Runner (2013)




A young online poker enthusiast seeks out the offshore entrepreneur he thinks cheated him.

Justin Timberlake is a good enough actor but his voice can be annoying at times.  Ben Affleck just wasn't that believable as a bad guy.

Rosy the Reviewer says...lackluster.






***Book of the Week***






The Orchardist by Amanda Coplin (2013)


This New York Times bestseller and first novel was eight years in the making and tells the story of William Talmadge, who despite his hard life, finds solace in the orchards of eastern Washington State during the 1800's.

This epic story seems to ask the question, "Why were we born?"

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you like novels with a strong sense of place, such as you find with John Steinbeck or Toni Morrison, you will like this book.


***Musical Theatre***



Monty Python's Spamalot



If you are a Monty Python fan, you will enjoy this musical version of "Monty Python and the Holy Grail," with other schtick thrown in. 

Rosy the Reviewer says...even if you are not a Monty Python fan, this is a fun evening of music and silliness.  Catch it if it comes to a town near you.  You won't be sorry.


***My New Favorite Restaurant***



Loulay (600 Union St., Seattle)

From Thierry Rautureau, the "Chef in the hat," comes this wonderful new venture in the heart of downtown Seattle.  With the demise of Rover's, his fine dining establishment in Madison Park (it closed last June), he has added this bistro that combines his wonderful French cuisine and high quality service with the casual ambience and lower prices today's diners prefer.

I had the cod with the celery root puree and the miso nage and it was the best piece of fish I have ever had.  The sauce was to die! Hubby felt the same about his salmon.  I couldn't believe my cod was only $!9.  However, if you are a big eater, I recommend adding a started and/or a salad (the house salad was large and delicious) and, because the desserts are delicious, you should indulge.  I recommend the pear tart. The service was on point - always right there when the time was right, never cloying.

Perfect place to dine if you are going to the theatre downtown.

Too bad you didn't make a rezzie for Valentine's Day.  It's also a romantic spot.

Rosy the Reviewer says.... Seattlites, make your reservation now. 
On the Saturday night we were there, it was packed.  And if you don't live in Seattle, but want to visit, put it on your list.

That's it for this week!

See you Tuesday

for a tribute to

"Daughters."

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Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Why I Love England: An American Anglophile's A-Z

To quote William Blake, England is indeed a "green and pleasant land."






This time of year, I start thinking of my spring or summer trip and, though I have been to many other European destinations and there are places I have yet to see, I always want to go back to England.  

I am an Anglophile through and through.

Other than possibly a past life as an English maiden, I blame it on the "British Invasion" and the Beatles, which is just now enjoying it's 50th Anniversary.  From that moment on, I wanted to wear clothes from Carnaby Street, drive through the English countryside with Emma Peel and marry a Beatle.  I have managed two out of three sans Emma Peel.

Hubby's work used to take him there several times a year, so when I could, I would tag along.  Because of that, we have many friends there and have been able to explore England's many nooks and crannies - not just the touristy destinations, but some truly unique and special places and experiences.

I have worn the town crier's hat in Chester,



(I was informed after wearing the hat and doing my "hear ye, hear ye," that "she who wears the crier's hat in nine months will have a brat."  Thanks, Town Crier, I wish you had told me that before I donned the hat even though having a brat at this stage would be close to an act of god).

spent a few days in a narrow boat on the Oxford canal,



punted on the River Cam with Hubby and my kids,






















Looks easier than it is!
Hubby almost fell off right after this picture was taken when he went under a bridge and didn't duck!




                                                             

toured Stonehenge alone with my daughter
(it was February and snowing and we had it all to ourselves)




driven through the water splash in Yorkshire that was featured in the opening sequence of the TV show "All Creatures Great and Small," 




found the house in Cark in Cartmel where Hubby's father lived before his family emigrated to the United States,


(We were told by a fellow in the local pub it had been used as an ale house, which is basically an illegal pub)!

and took a picture down the pants of a street performer in Covent Garden (long story)!


So in light of the 50th Anniversary of the Beatles and the British Invasion, an event that greatly influenced my life, I thought I would share with you a little alphabet book on why I love England.  Perhaps it will inspire you.



Afternoon Tea


How civilized to take a break around 4pm to have a cuppa tea and some sweets.  That will hold you until dinner which in Europe is often after 8pm. 

I can remember one visit where an event was planned at a pub for later in the evening (Skittles, the pub game, not the candy), and I stupidly skipped tea.  By the time dinner was served at the event I was so hungry I kept yammering on to the person preparing the food while he mumbled "Bloody American" under his breath.  (However, I did win the women's prize for playing Skittles).

Tea can be as simple as tea with scones and clotted cream in a village tea house to tea at The Ritz with champagne, sandwiches and assorted sweets - and tea, of course. 

I vote for the champagne and the Ritz.





The Beatles


Duh.  I could go on and on about them, which I have already done in my blog post, "Why the Beatles Matter." 

Suffice it to say, this almost life size poster hangs in my family room as does this Richard Avedon photo of John.


Ignore the Christmas lights!



The Cotswolds


Stanton, often called the most beautiful village in England.


I have been to most of the Cotswolds villages, and I think Lower Slaughter is the most beautiful. 

We spent a wedding anniversary there.  When the tourists go home, you have it all to yourselves.  I have taken the walk over the stiles, through the sheep pasture, to Upper Slaughter many times and I never get tired of it. 

And there are just so many wonderful paths you can take all over England, all by yourself and feel perfectly safe.  No guns!






Diana


Don't get me started.

I was a huge Diana fan and when she died, a light went out.  Like the Beatles, she had that certain something that affected people who didn't even know her.  I just liked being in the world knowing she was in it too.  I stayed up all night to watch her funeral and her body being taken to Althorp for burial crying all the while.

Paying respects at Althorp is on my Bucket List.

Here is part of the Diana Memorial Walk in St. James Park.



Eastenders






This is a BBC soap opera about the lives of people living on Albert Square in Walford, a fictional part of London's East End, who gather in the fictional pub, The Queen Victoria (aka Queen Vic).  



I have been following it since it was first shown on PBS over 25 years ago.  Other than the wedding of Luke and Laura on "General Hospital (got hooked while I was home after my son was born)," I am not a person who watches soap operas, but this one not only captured my love of England, specifically London, but captured its "realness."  Here there are regular looking people and senior citizens with huge story lines that mirror real life.  It's gritty, touching and powerful.  It still plays on some PBS stations, but fewer and fewer.  I don't think I have ever missed an episode and loved watching it in "real time" whenever I traveled to the UK.

BBC America played it for several years and then abruptly cut us off in 2003 causing fans to go apoplectic, but eventually creating a huge Eastenders community here in the U.S. that exists to this day and many of those folks are my friends.
 






This Eastenders dish towel hangs in my office as proof that I supported the show when it played on PBS in San Jose.


Fashion and Food

Thanks to Mary Quant, Carnaby Street,Twiggy and the British Invasion, British fashion dominated the 1960's.  Everyone seems to think that the 1960's is all about hippies, but that didn't really start until the late 60's and early 70's.  The 1960's were all about mini skirts, go go boots, John Lennon hats and cool haircuts.


Today we have Stella McCartney and Victoria Beckham.


Following WWII, England suffered such deprivation that their food got a bad rap for years.  But now they have Gordon Ramsay, Nigella Lawson, Marco-Pierre White and more who have changed the face of British cuisine.

Wish I could afford to go to their restaurants!






The Globe Theatre



The theatre associated with Shakespeare.  This is as close as this wannabee actress will ever get to appearing there.


Harrods

Harrods department store is a must, especially the food court.  I bought some items there thinking I would eat them in Hyde Park.  However, the assumption must be that I was taking it home.  The British must think it gauche to eat out of a container, because there were no forks to be had. 

I sat on the grass in Hyde Park and ate my tuna salad with my fingers, happy as a clam and pinching myself that I was sitting on the grass in Hyde Park eating tuna salad!




The Isle of Wight

We went to the Isle of Wight on a trip when we didn't have much money or sense.  Of course we had heard about it ever since the famous music festivals there where Bob Dylan had his first performance following his motorcycle accident (1969) and Jimi Hendrix performed before his death (1970).  We didn't have the money to take the car on the ferry, not realizing there wasn't much to walk to once you had seen the town.

But, hey, we've been to The Isle of Wight!



June Brown


June Brown is an 87-year-old actress who is probably not well-known in the United States, but she is a national treasure in the UK for her portrayal of "Dot Cotton" on the soap "Eastenders (see above under "E").  Though she had a successful acting career and has appeared in many films, "Eastenders" made her a huge star and she is one of the few remaining characters who starred in the early episodes.

I had the privilege of meeting her when she came to the U.S. to promote the show.  The picture above is the picture she autographed for me.  You can see that she started to spell my name "Rosie," and my being a cheeky sort, corrected her and you can see she turned the "e" into a "y." 

I was going through some stuff at the time and remember almost crying when I went up to her and probably said something stupid like "Can we be best friends?"  She was very warm and kind and said something like she hoped I got some help.



Kensington Palace

Home of Diana and some of the other Royals and now home to Prince William, Kate and baby George. 

I remember being in the Kensington Gardens and seeing a woman who looked so much like Diana that I got it in my head that it WAS Diana and I would get to talk to her.  Followed the woman until I realized it wasn't she.  I finally had to ask myself, what in the world would Diana be doing out walking all by herself without anyone else knowing it except me? 

I was (and am) a little nutty about Diana.




Lake District




A gorgeous part of England. 

Home to Wordsworth where he and Coleridge hung out in the Dove Cottage doing a bunch of opium. No wonder Wordsworth "wandered lonely as a cloud," and Coleridge was feeling albatrosses around his neck.  Opium was cheaper than tea!

Oh, look, my natural hair color.  I had forgotten.





Music

The British Invasion didn't just bring the Beatles.  I was gaga over The Rolling Stones, the Kinks, Gerry and the Pacemakers, the Zombies and the Yardbirds too. 


If they were English, I was a fan and planned to marry SOMEBODY English and move to England! 

How else to explain Herman's Hermits!






Narrow Boats






Imagine six people ranging in age from 20+ to 70, driving and living on a boat on an English canal and nary a cross word was said.  Must have been all of that wine! 

My Swedish cousin and her husband, my sister, my daughter and Hubby and I rented a narrow boat and drove up the Oxford canal. 

We, or should I say Hubby, drove it ourselves, lived on it, took it through many locks, ran into things and it was one of the greatest vacations ever.






Oxford



City of Spires.  Home of Oxford University and my beloved Inspector Morse.

We tried to go to places where Morse had hung out. 

We had a drink at the Marlborough Hotel where Morse would do and his author Colin Dexter hangs out (the bartender said Dexter always sits in the same chair and if someone else is sitting there, he waits patiently in the lobby until it is available), lunch at the Trout pub, which figured in early Morse mysteries such as "The Service of all the Dead" and "The Wolvercote Tongue." 





While in Oxford, I purchased "The Oxford of Inspector Morse and Lewis" by Bill Leonard, and planned to watch every single Morse mystery with the book to see the places we had been and learn more about them. 

Still on my to do list.


A librarian aside:  while working as a research librarian pre-Internet someone asked about a quotation in one of the Morse mysteries (Morse is one of your more literate detectives and is forever throwing quotes around under his breath).  After perusing countless quotation books (yes, the actual printed page), I decided to write to Colin Dexter and ask him myself.  I found his home address, wrote him a letter (this is also pre-email) and several weeks later, he wrote back in his own hand to inform me the quote was from "the greatest book ever written, 'Bleak House' by Charles Dickens."  He also said he loved librarians and I should look him up if I was ever in Oxford.  Rumor had it he loved librarians to buy his drinks!  I was hoping he would be at the Marlborough!




Pubs




















I just love the pub culture of England and, I know what you are thinking.  Of course she does.  She enjoys the occasional tipple.  But that's not why.  The pub culture in England is all about the village, the neighborhood, hanging out with your friends, socializing.  If they can walk to their "local," there are few old folks living in isolation in England unless they want to.  The bartender in the second picture befriended us in London, and when I said, "This is just like the Queen Vic ("Eastenders," see above), we were treated extra special.





The Queen

Queen Elizabeth II was only 26 when her father, King George VI, died unexpectedly and she was called back to England from her honeymoon to become Queen.  She has ruled Great Britain and the Commonwealth realms for 62 years.  She only has two more years to go until she beats Queen Victoria as the longest reigning monarch.  I think she will go for it and Charles will just have to wait.

Her coronation was the first to be televised and it never ceases to bring out emotion in me as I think of her taking on this daunting task at only 26.  No matter how you feel about the Royals, she has certainly taken her oath to serve seriously.  How long she has served was brought home to me while viewing an exhibit of her life at the Victoria and Albert Museum.  They had erected a timeline with her on one side and all of the heads of state around the world who have come and gone since she became Queen. 

Quite astonishing.







The Royal Family

Again, whether you like the Royals or not, Prince William, Princess Catherine and Prince George embody the "It Factor" that was Diana.  I will enjoy watching their lives unfold.

And hey, what's wrong with a little pomp and circumstance now and then?



Shakespeare



Can't do an alphabet book on England without including Shakespeare.

Fun Fact:  On his gravestone, he curses anyone who tries to rob his grave:

"Good friend, for Jesus’ sake forbeare, / To dig the dust enclosed here. Blessed be the man that spares these stones, / And cursed be he that moves my bones."




Tabloids


When I am in England, I indulge.  I just can't help myself.





The Underground



Fastest way to get around London.  Safe and easy.  Sure wish we had something like this in Seattle.  However, one thing to keep in mind.  When you spend most of your time on the Tube, you don't get a very good sense of where things are. 

One time I took it and realized it had only taken me across the street!


Victoria and Albert Museum

                                                                                   I
Called England's Attic (and also the V & A), this museum has everything from teddy bears to mummies to fashion and if they can have more than one of something, they do!



                        
I thought I had big hips!




Windsor Castle


One of the worst flights we ever had was one that arrived in England at 6am. 

Imagine the jet lag!  And what is there to do in England at 6am?  We couldn't check into our hotel, nothing was open and we were pooped.  Hubby's work was about 60 miles west of London so we headed out and made Windsor our first stop. 

Besides being home to Windsor Castle, one of the Queen's preferred abodes, Windsor is a lovely little town with Eton nearby.  We dragged out weary selves to Windsor, found a little hole-in-the-wall café, propped our eyes open with some toothpicks and enjoyed our cheese toasts and tea.  If you have to be jet-lagged at 7am, Windsor is not a bad place to hang out.

You might even run into the Queen!

Now we just have to stay awake for another 14 hours!


Xmas in England


One thing I have not done is spend Christmas in England which is still on my Bucket List. 

I want to shop in London and enjoy all of the lights and decorations and then gather my family together to spend the holiday in a lovely little village with the locals and pretend I am English.

Perhaps Father Christmas will make that wish come true some day.


York

York is a walled city with Roman ruins.

Walking the wall.


An old ruin lying on an old (Roman) ruin in York.


Zed

They say "zed" for "z." 

I think that's cool.




Thank you for taking this trip with me.

Do you have any fond memories of England?

See you Friday
 when I will share some romantic movies for your Valentine's Day viewing -
and, of course, reviews!

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