Friday, June 21, 2019

"Ma" and The Week in Reviews

[I review "Ma" as well as DVDs "Never Look Away" and "Destroyer."  I also bring you up-to-date with "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with "Man of Iron."]



Ma


 "Is there life after high school?" 

According to this film, the teen bullies and baddies grow up to be adult bullies and baddies, and worse, some turn into psychos.


Maggie (Diana Silvers) and her mom, Erica (Juliette Lewis), have moved back to Erica's hometown. Things haven't worked out that well for Erica since she left town, so she is back picking up the pieces and working in the local casino. Maggie is struggling with the usual teen stuff when new in town, but she is a pretty young teenager so quickly finds a social circle with the popular Andy (Corey Fogelmanis) and Haley (McKaley Miller) and their friends.  Maggie is a good kid - we know this because she is the only one who helps a young girl in a wheelchair at school and actually gets along with her mother - but Erica isn't around much so Maggie and her new friends do what teens do, get in a van, try to go score some alcohol, and then go drink it out at a remote spot called "the rocks."


After not having much luck standing around the local liquor store trying to find an adult who will buy them some booze, the teens finally encounter Sue Ann (Octavia Spencer), a forty-something, out walking her dog.  They approach her, and at first she says no, but eventually she relents and buys them the alcohol.  Seems like she has taken a shine to Andy.  As time goes by, the kids rely on Sue Ann for this more and more, and eventually Sue Ann invites them to party at her house in her basement under the pretense that they are safer drinking at her place than out "at the rocks" or driving around.  The only caveat is that they are to stay down in the basement and never go upstairs.  


On the very first night, Sue Ann inexplicably pulls a gun on one of the crew, Chaz (Gianni Paolo), and tells him to strip, which he does, and then Sue Ann laughs it off like she was just kidding!  Hahaha...yeah, right. I can suspend disbelief with the best of them while watching a film, but I have to say, that if that had ever happened to me as a teen, I would have given old Sue Ann a wide berth.  But not these kids.  In fact, they not only keep coming back, they give her an affectionate nickname - "Ma."  They are not very smart.

Ok, so what's Sue Ann's deal?  


Well, she has a lot of issues.  She is mistreated by her boss at the vet's clinic where she works; she appears to live alone so is lonely; but more importantly we discover that she has some deep-seated resentments about her high school classmates. And that's another thing about "life after high school."  Apparently, none of Sue Ann's classmates, except Erica, moved away.  They are all still in the small town, and guess what?  Some of these kids who are now hanging out in Ma's basement are the kids of those very same classmates who Ma resents. Da-da-da-dum...Revenge.

We come to find out just what happened to young Sue Ann, why she is so taken with Andy, why the kids aren't supposed to go upstairs and just how deep Sue Ann's resentments run.


This film has the usual "gotcha" moments we have come to expect in thrillers and some gruesome moments, like when Sue Ann sews Haley's eyes shut (ew), but all-in-all, this film is pretty tame and just screams "Lifetime Movie." 


I get why Silvers is in this film.  She is a young actress noticable in "Booksmart (though I didn't mention her in my review because she was involved in very much a side story)," so she's on her way up. And I get why Lewis is in this film. She hasn't been around much since she made a splash in the 90's so I would say her career is on the way down so she needs some gigs. But Octavia Spencer is one of our most gifted and acclaimed actresses so I couldn't help but wonder how she ended up in this thing.  Perhaps since she is mostly a character actress, she probably saw this as her only chance to star in a film.  The one thing that defies explanation, though, is the presence of Allison Janey.  Not only is this not the kind of vehicle we expect to see her in, but she is on screen for about three minutes total, just long enough for Sue Ann to kill her.

Written by Scotty Landes and directed by Tate Taylor, this film lacks originality and suspense, and verges on camp.  But it's not even camp enough to be campy. 


So...Is there life after high school? Apparently not!

Rosy the Reviewer says...by the time you read this review, "Ma" will probably already be out of the theatres so it's a moot point if I say you can skip this one, though it might be fun to see at a drive-in (and yes, there are still some drive-ins out there).



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Never Look Away (2018)


A German artist who escaped East Germany is still haunted by his childhood spent under Nazi rule.

The film starts with Elisabeth May (Saskia Rosendahl) and her nephew, Kurt, attending a modern art exhibit, designated as "degenerate art" by the Nazis.  She loves her young nephew and wants to expose him to life.  She also likes to stand in front of buses and have them blow their horns at her and to play the piano naked. Okay, she is a bit strange.  But she also tries to teach Kurt to "never look away," because "everything that is true holds beauty in it." Elisabeth is a bit of a free spirit which in Nazi terms means "crazy," and it's not long before she is taken away and eventually euthanized.  The Nazis didn't like people with mental problems. And Kurt never really gets over losing his favorite aunt.

Fast forward to 1945.  The doctor who made the call that Elisabeth needed to die in order to continue the Nazi desires for "positive breeding" is Dr. Karl Seeband (Sebastian Koch). The communists have taken over East Berlin and Seeband has been called up for crimes against humanity.  However, while in prison, he saves the life of the Russian commandant's wife who is having a difficult delivery so, in thanks, the commandant releases Seeband and expunges his war crimes record.

Now it's 1951.  Kurt (Tom Schilling) has grown up and is a young art student and, wouldn't you know, Kurt meets Ellie (Paula Beer), who is studying fashion design.  She reminds him of his Aunt Elisabeth.  MAJOR IRONY!  Ellie just happens to be Seeband's daughter. Naturally they fall in love. One hour in, you can see where this is headed.  And I say one hour in because this is an epic film, "epic" being a euphemism for LONG.  It's over three hours long, in fact.

Anyway, Kurt doesn't know who Seeband is - yet - and he is having a crisis of conscious about his art.  The Russians want him to create "social realism," and he complies...for a time.  But he really wants to find his own voice and that's not what the communists have in mind.

Seeband doesn't approve of Kurt, thinking he is inferior and not the right "genetic material" for his daughter. When Ellie becomes pregnant, Seeband tells her something is wrong with her internal organs and that a pregnancy could kill her.  An operation needs to be done. Seeband not only gets rid of the baby but tells Ellie she will be incapable of having children.  He is a very, very bad guy, but despite his ruthless attempts to break Kurt and Ellie up. Ellie is a sweet girl and you can't help but wonder how someone as evil as Seeband ended up with such a wonderful daughter.

The story covers a 40-year period and goes on to follow Kurt into the West so he can express his art the way he wants to, his relationship with Ellie and we find out what happens to Seeband.

This was a wonderful film.  It was nominated for a Best Foreign Language Oscar last year, but despite that, I still have a problem with films that are over three hours long. To me, it's a matter of a director being able to edit him or herself.  I think I need to do a tutorial on editing to help these directors who can't seem to edit themselves.

So here it is:

1.  Cut the sex scenes.  We know from experience sex never lasts longer than about two minutes anyway so why do they last so long in films?  And what ever happened to that old trope of waves crashing on rocks?

2.  Don't have the camera follow characters as they walk from place to place in real time. Let the character go out the door and then miraculously appear at his or her destination.  It's the power of film. It's called editing!

3. Having the camera linger on characters' faces as they look off into space is a huge waste of time.  We can't read their minds so why do that?  It's the actors' jobs to show us whatever emotion is needed which shouldn't take those long shots.  It's called acting!

4.  A little voice-over narration or written exposition is helpful in snipping some time off a film.  If the screen says "Ten years later," we don't have to sit through those ten years. When Kurt defects to the West and works to get his art established, we could have saved a whole hour right there by saying "Kurt defects to the West, finds his voice and gets his art established!"

5.  Sometimes I ask myself why a certain character is in a film. There are many times when characters and scenes can be cut. I am still wondering what the hell Allison Janney was doing in "Ma (see review above)."

There.  If a director just takes a few of those ideas, we won't have to endure these long "epics."

But I bet you think with my rant on the need for editing that I didn't like this film.  Well, you would be wrong.  I really, really liked this film.  Yes, there were some long, and in my opinion, extraneous sections.  The art scenes could have been shorter.  I mean, I get it. Kurt wanted to express himself and couldn't in a Communist environment where the only art considered art was in thrall to the government.  But the main hook in the story and what keeps you watching - when will Kurt find out who and what Seeband is and whether or not that will affect his relationship with Ellie - was done very effectively.  The film is also beautifully filmed and the young actors are engaging. Schilling looks like a young Leonardo di Caprio and Ellie looks like a young Olivia Coleman.  Must have been the overbite.  And Koch, who you will recognize from TVs "Homeland" and countless films is mesmorizingly good.

Written and directed by Florian Henckel von Donnersmarck, who won a Best Foreign Language Oscar in 2006 for "The Lives of Others (which also starred Koch) and inspired by the life of artist Gerhard Richter, "Never Look Away" is an homage to artistic expression and a call to action to find truth no matter how difficult but it's also a reminder to never forget this terrible part of human history.

Rosy the Reviewer says...settle in for a long night. It's worth it.




Destroyer (2018)


Erin Bell (Nicole Kidman) isn't looking so good.  She isn't feeling so good either.  She is an undercover agent with issues.

Yet another film film noir where an undercover cop was involved in a situation that derailed her.

The film begins with Erin arriving on a murder scene involving a John Doe. She looks like hell and they are not happy to see her.  She tells the responding officers she knows who the killer is.

Erin looks like the walking dead.  She is not a happy woman.  She has been tramatized by her past and has never gotten over it.  She struggles with her relationship with her daughter and drowns her guilt in alcohol.  So what happened?  Why is Erin such a mess?

Years before, Erin and her former partner, Chris (Sebastian Stan), were undercover as gang members. They were also romantically involved. They took part in a bank robbery that went very wrong and made some personal decisions that were also very wrong. The leader of the gang was Silas (Toby Kebbell) and Erin tells her fellow cops that Silas is back and active again.  To prove that, Erin must go back and find the remaining gang members in order to find Silas and in so doing, Erin seeks redemption for the past.

T
he screenplay by Phil Hay and Matt Manfredi uses a series of flashbacks to tell the real story and just what Erin's role was in that botched robbery and what she and Chris had planned.  It all comes full circle and doesn't end well for Erin.

Directed by Karyn Kusama, this is yet another film where a beautiful actress makes herself look less than beautiful so we will take her seriously. And I guess we did because she received an Best Actress Oscar nomination for this role.  But Nicole, Nicole, Nicole.  We already did take you seriously.  I think you are one of the finest actresses around.  You don't need to go to these lengths for me to say that. But all of that aside, you were once again wonderful and this is a really good film.

Rosy the Reviewer says...Nicole Kidman is an amazing actress, with or without makeup.



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Man of Iron (1981)


Director Andrzej Wajda's account of the events at the Gdansk shipyard in the summer of 1980.

Winkiel (Marian Opania) is a burned out, alcoholic journalist assigned to look into the activities of Maciek Tomzyk (Jerzy Radziwilowicz), the leader of the striking shipyard workers and who is also the son of Mateusz Birkut, the former Polish worker-hero.  Hoping to find dirty laundry on Tomzyk and his detained wife, Agnieszka (Krystyna Janda), Winkiel uses his own past as a youthful radical to gain entry into Tomzyk's inner circle, but when he hears what Tomzyk has been through and what happened to Tomzyk's father, Winkiel's former idealism kicks in and his allegiences change.

Watching this film was confusing until I discovered that this film continues the story started in "Man of Marble," which is also one of the "1001 Movies" we are all supposed to see but which I have not yet seen.  But the film clearly paints Tomczyk as a sort of Lech Walesa character with Walesa actually appearing in the film as himself. 
The film is markedly critical of the Communist regime and because of that was banned in Poland in 1981. It also shows how the government tries to manipulate news sources especially when they are in the hands of the state (sound familiar?). The film won the Palme d'Or and the Jury Prize at Cannes in 1981 and was nominated for an Academy Award for Best Foreign Language Film. 
Why it's a Must See: "...a moving tribute to the Polish citizens whose struggle enabled the freedom so cherished in this part of Europe."
---"1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die"
Wajda has created a fictional film with a documentary feel, and what was most remarkable about this film for me was the actual documentary footage of Lech Walesa's solidarity movement strikes which were happening at the time woven into the film, but other than that, can't say I really enjoyed it.

Rosy the Reviewer says...an important historical document but not my kind of film. But if you want to see it, watch "Man of Marble" first.

(In Polish with English subtitles)




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Friday, June 14, 2019

"Booksmart" and The Week in Reviews

[I review "Booksmart" as well as DVDs "Happy Death Day 2U" and "Greta."  The Book of the Week is the memoir "When Breath Becomes Air."  I also bring you up-to-date with "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with "Underground."]




Booksmart


A coming of age tale about two noses-to-the grindstone high school seniors who decide they finally need to have some fun.

Amy (Kaitlyn Dever) and Molly (Beanie Feldstein - and what a cool name is that?) are best friends. They have been best friends since childhood.  Amy and Molly are also very smart and driven young women who are planning to go to good colleges after high school. Molly is student council president and valedictorian and has already been accepted at Yale. I mean, that was the whole point of all of that hard work, right? Amy is an activist who is going to take a gap year and do humanitarian work in Botswana.  These two had their goals in mind early and kept their noses in their books.  The reward?  They felt superior to their fellow students who would never get into good colleges after all of that partying.  

Oh, really? 

Molly's world is rocked when she overhears some kids talking about her in the school restroom.  When she confronts them and calls them partying losers, she discovers that they too have gotten into good schools!  How could that happen? Molly and Amy had eschewed partying to tend to their academics and now find out that maybe they really missed out and could have been partying with their friends after all. So what WAS the point, then, of all of that hard work?

So Molly convinces Amy that they have one last chance to party. 

It's the night before graduation and it's now or never. They decide to have some fun at a big end-of-school party at Nick's (Mason Gooding - the son of Cuba Gooding Jr., by the way) aunt's house.  However, there's one problem.  They don't know where that is.  So as they try to find Nick's party, the film takes on a kind of "Adventures in Babysitting" vibe where all kinds of "adventures" ensue as they try to get to Nick's party. They engage the help of Jared (hilariously played by Skyler Gisondo), a sort of clueless rich kid; drug-crazed Gigi (Billie Lourd, Carrie Fisher's daughter and Billie is hilarious too), who spikes some strawberries she feeds them with drugs resulting in a very funny scene; and their high school principle (Jason Sudeikis) who naturally works as a Lyft driver to make extra money because they don't pay teachers enough.  

At the party, Amy who is gay, crushes on Ryan (yes, it's a girl - Victoria Ruesga) and Molly crushes on Nick but neither relationship pans out and Amy wants to go home, calling "Malala," their code word for needing help, meaning now Molly must do what Amy wants. (And of course, these two superachievers would choose "Malala" as their word).  When Molly refuses they have a huge fight where some secrets are revealed and their friendship tested.

Directed by actress Olivia Wilde in her feature film directorial debut, the strengths of this film are the two lead actresses, Wilde's deft directorial hand that keeps the pace, and the sharp screenplay by Emily Halpern, Susanna Fogel, Sarah Haskins and Katie Silberman, a powerhouse of women writers. 

At first, watching this film, I couldn't believe kids actually talked and acted like this. Did my kids? Some of the stuff these kids in the movie said...  Wow!  Then I was walking through the shopping center near the high school.  School had just gotten out and kids were hanging out at the Subway, talking and carrying on...and yep.  So, yes, this is what kids act like. 

What I also liked, besides the interesting characters, was the the fact that Feldstein/Molly was not the usual little skinny teen actress we have come to accept in these teen films but a curvy young girl and - nothing was made of that.  She wasn't on a diet, the kids didn't taunt her for being overweight, and she didn't think twice about making a play for the hot young jock.  It just was what it was.  And I appreciated that.  In fact, none of the characters were your typical stereotypes often found in teen films.

Moral of the story - love and appreciate your friends and it's OK to have some fun!

Rosy the Reviewer says...a fresh take on the coming of age story that celebrates female friendships starring two wonderful young actresses.



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Happy Death Day 2U (2019)


Sorority girl Tree Gelbman (Jessica Rothe) is back in yet another gruesome Groundhog Day loop, but this time, let's add "Back to the Future!"

Yet another sequel capitalizing on the success of the first film. I really liked the first film - a sort of "Groundhog Day" of murder and horror, but with a sense of humor.  But since the murderer was uncovered in the first film and dispatched with, I couldn't help but wonder what kind of a sequel this would be. 

So now Tree Gelbman is back. Time has passed since that horrible birthday where she would wake up every morning in Carter's (Israel Broussard), her soon-to-be boyfriend's, dorm room on her birthday only to be murdered by the end of it by someone in a baby mask and then having to relive that day over and over.  It wasn't until she took it upon herself to solve her own murder that the loop stopped.  So all is well...

Except...

What??? Now the Groundhog Day loop is back and is happening to Ryan (Phi Vu), one of her friends, and then -- dammit! -- to her again!  How can that be?  The killer is dead!

Turns out Ryan and his nerdy friends had invented a sort of time machine and screwed up the dimensions of time and space and now they are all caught in a parallel universe where the killer wasn't killed and might not have been the killer at all, Tree and Carter are not boyfriend and girlfriend, and Tree's mother is not dead (Tree had been mourning her mother's death in the first film).  She must make a decision whether to go back to her former life or stay where her mother is still alive in a very poignant scene between Tree and her mother.

So now we have "Groundhog Day" meets "Back to the Future." 

The Groundhog Day aspect is that in this continuous loop of reliving the same day over and over, everyone except Tree forgets what happened the day before.  Only Tree remembers so she has to be the living record.  She also tries to hurry everything up by actually killing herself each day instead of waiting for the murderer to get to her.  There are some gruesomely funny suicides, if suicide can be funny i.e. she drops a hair dryer in the bathtub that she is in (don't try this at home), drinks Liquid Plumber, throws herself in a wood chipper and jumps out of an airplane without a parachute.

Written and directed by Christopher Landon, these kinds of horror films aren't scary per se and are dependent on the young stars. In this case, the kids, especially Rothe, are engaging and you want to root for them.  However, I always have a problem with the time/space continuum stuff and, as you know, I generally don't like sequels. However, I appreciated that this film recapped the first one early on so you at least had an inkling what was going on in this one. Though this film was fun, I didn't like it as much as the first one so I have to question the need for this sequel. The first film was a cute, original play on a horror film.  Now this one is trying to capitalize on that success when I think we would have been just fine remembering the first one.

Rosy the Reviewer says...not as good as the first one but it's still fun.




Greta (2018)



A perfect reflection of the old adage, "No good deed goes unpunished."

Watching this film, I couldn't help but wonder if "Single White Female" started the whole woman-stalking-woman trope in the movies because this is another one of those.

Frances (Chloe Grace Moretz) is a nice young woman who finds a designer handbag on the subway.  There is money in the purse and all of the information she needs to find the owner so she decides to return it much to her roommate, Erica's (Maika Monroe) dismay. I mean, as Erica points out, what if the person is a nutter or worse?  

Well....  The owner of the purse is Greta (Isabelle Huppert), an older woman who lives alone.  She seems sweet enough and the two embark on a friendship.  Frances had recently lost her mother so Greta filled that void in her life until...Let's just say Greta starts getting a bit needy and clingy.  OK, obsessive.  And then Frances especially regrets returning that purse when she finds Greta's stash of identical purses as in, uh, just how many of us was Greta going after? Frances breaks off the friendship but Greta will not be ignored! See where this is heading?  Well, I kind of did, but there are some twists and turns that I didn't see.

If you are going to do an old-fashioned potboiler like this, put it in the capable hands of a veteran actress like Isabelle Huppert, who does subtly crazy very well.  She is a wonderful actress who has had a hugely successful career ever since the 70's.  As for Chloe, she is very believable and just keeps getting better and better.

Directed by Neil Jordan who directed the stunning "The Crying Game" and other wonderful films back in the 90's, one can't help but wonder why he hasn't been as prolific since (actor Steven Rea makes an appearance here in a sort of homage to those days).   

Rosy the Reviewer says...I saw the M.O. on this one right away but as they say it's all about the journey. It was great fun getting to the end.  This is a good old-fashioned potboiler with great acting and a story that just whizzes along.



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Underground (1995)


A farcical and satiric allegory about the country formerly known as Yugoslavia from World War II to the postcommunist present.

Beginning in Belgrade in 1941 in the midst of WW II, two anti-Nazi arms dealers, Marko (Predrag 'Miki' Manojlovic) and Blackie (Lazar Ristovski), inadvertently become Communist heroes. These guys have few redeeming qualities, but actually I think Marko was the worst.  He locked people in his grandfather's cellar to escape the war and manufacture arms and actually managed to convince them that the war was still going on well into the 60's. However, Blacky gets to show how bad he is when the Bosnian War rolls around. There's also, Natalija, an actress (Mirjana Jokovic) both men want, a chimp, and all kinds of crazy stuff, showcasing black humor at its highest form.

Based loosely on the play, "Spring in January" by Serbian playwright Dusan Kovacevicthe story unfolds in three parts, each linked to a particular period of Yugoslavian history: World War II, the Cold War that followed and the war in Bosnia.  Marko and Blackie spent those years fighting an imaginary Nazi occupation, each in a different way.  Blacky has stayed underground thinking that WW II was still going on while Marko became a sort of hero, hanging around with the likes of Tito and profiting from what his "friends" were doing underground.  

Directed by Emir Kusturica, who is considered the most renowned filmmaker of those Eastern Europeans who experienced the before and after of the Cold War, this almost three hour comedy/drama about Yugoslavia's history won the Golden Palm at Cannes in 1995 and has been in the midst of controversy due to its conceived pro-Serbian stance despite the fact that Kusturica is a Bosnian Muslim.

Why it's a Must See: "However one chooses to take its jaundiced view of history, [this film] is probably the best film to date by [the talented Kusturica]...a triumph of mise-en-scene mated to a comic vision that keeps topping its own hyperbole."
---"1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die"

Rosy the Reviewer says...OK, fine, it had some enjoyable moments and it was vibrantly filmed, but way too long at almost three hours.  I am fundamentally opposed to any movie that is longer than two and a half hours at the most unless it's "Gone With the Wind."




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When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi and Abraham Verghese (2016)


At the age of 36, just as Paul Kalanithi was completing his training as a neurosurgeon, he discovered that he had Stage IV lung cancer.  The doctor was now the patient and he was going to die.

What do you do when you know you are going to die?  

In this case, Kalanithi, who had been a biology and a literature major at Stanford before embarking on his medical training, decided to write the story of his journey and his quest to discover what made life worth living by writing this book, which was a Pulitzer Prize finalist, listed as one of the best books of 2016 by the New York Times and garnered many more awards.  Sadly, Kalanithi did not live to bask in the acclaim.

He never meant to be a doctor.  He loved literature and wanted to be a writer.  And that's what he planned to do when he went to Stanford, but a chance encounter with a book that made the assumption that the mind was simply the operation of the brain startled him.

"Though we had free will, we were also biological organisms -- the brain was an organ, subject to all the laws of physics, too! Literature provided a rich account of human meaning; the brain, then, was the machinery that somehow enabled it.  It seemed like magic.  That night, in my room, I opened up my red Stanford course catalog, which I had read through dozens of times, and grabbed a highligher.  In addition to all the literature classes I had marked, I began looking in biology and neurosciences as well."

And then a few years later, with most of his degrees in English literature and biology completed, Kalanithi was driven to try to understand what makes human life meaningful?  While "literature provided the best account of the life of the mind...neuroscience laid down the most elegant rules of the brain...Literature not only illuminated another's experience, it provided, I believed, the richest material for moral reflection..." And I was once married to a guy who thought reading fiction was a waste of time!

So thus began Kalanithi's career as a doctor - the kind of doctor we would all wish to have, one who cared about his patients.

"Before operating on a patient's brain, I realized, I must first understand his mind: his identity, his values, what makes his life worth living, and what devastation makes it reasonable to let that life end."

...and the quality of their lives.

"While all doctors treat diseases, neurosurgeons work in the crucible of identity, every operation on the brain, is by necessity, a manipulation of the substance of ourselves, and every conversation with a patient undergoing brain surgery cannot help but confront this fact...the question is not simply whether to live or die but what kind of life is worth living...Because the brain mediates our experience of the world, any neurosurgical problem forces a patient and family, ideally with a doctor as a guide, to answer this question: What makes life meaningful enough to go on living?"

This is the kind of doctor we all would want.  One who is skilled in the medical field but who also understands the human side of it. 

"...the physician's duty is not to stave off death or return patients to their old lives, but to take into our arms a patient and family whose lives have disintegrated and work until they can stand back up and face, and make sense of, their own existence."

Kalanithi only lived to 36. However, we are the better for the book, and his soul will live on through it, because this will surely be the definitive work about the quest for meaning in the face of death and dying. And the book is unique as he wove his love of literature in with all of the science.  It was literature that helped him get through his treatments.

"And so it was literature that brought me back to life during this time...I woke up in pain facing another day -- no project beyond breakfast seemed tenable.  I can't go on, I thought, and immediately, its antiphon responded, completing Samuel Beckett's seven words, words I have learned long ago as an undergraduate: I'll go on.  I got out of bed and took a step forward, repeating the phrase over and over: "I can't go on. I'll go on."

Speaking of the meaning of life, I couldn't help but wonder why someone like Kalanithi who wanted to do good and live a meaningful life should only live to 37 while Charles Manson, who has come to epitomize evil, lived to 83. Sometimes life is also just so random.

This is a nice companion piece to the wonderful "Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End," which I reviewed last year.  In that book the author, Atul Gawande, another doctor, talks about how doctors are not trained to deal with death and dying but rather keeping people alive at any cost.  He believes that patients have a right to know that their time has come so they can choose how they want to spend their last years and days. I so agree with that. And so does Kalanithi, who struggled with making those kinds of decisions - to continue to try to save the patient?  At what cost?

My cousin and sister both died within the last few years and too soon.  Both had terminal cancer but were still put through horrendous procedures to try to prolong their lives.  If they had really been informed that there was nothing that could be done to save them, don't you think they would have chosen to spend their time at home with loved ones rather than rounds and rounds of doctor's appointments and procedures?

"How little do doctors understand the hells through which we put our patients."

An extraordinary doctor and extraordinary man.


Rosy the Reviewer says...Kalanithi's story is an amazing one.  Keep some hankies nearby.




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