Friday, September 28, 2018

"The Wife" and The Week in Reviews

[I review the movie "The Wife" as well as DVDs "Lemon" and "Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom."  I also bring you up-to-date with "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with "Hotel Terminus: The Life and Times of Klaus Barbie."  The Book of the Week is Sally Field's memoir "In Pieces."]

The Wife

When novelist Joe Castleman (Jonathan Pryce) receives the Nobel Prize for Literature, his wife, Joan (Glenn Close), is forced to face the choices she made in life.

I probably wouldn't have known much about this movie or gone to see it if Hubby hadn't been in an airport on a recent business trip, needed something to read and randomly picked up the novel by Meg Wolitzer upon which this film is based, but I am glad he did.  With six Oscar nominations and no wins, I think this is Glenn Close's year for an Academy Award.

I can't really go into too much detail about the film, because this is one of those films with a big revelation at the end.  Unfortunately it was a revelation I saw coming practically from the first frame (Hubby said the book was much more subtle in the hints about what was to come), but that did not hinder my enjoyment of the film, especially the acting.  Let's just say that behind every successful man is a woman.

It's 1992. Joe Castleman is a successful novelist who has been awarded the Nobel Prize for Literature.  He and his doting wife, Joan, along with their son, David (Max Irons, son of Jeremy), travel from Connecticut to Stockholm for Joe's award. David also hopes to be a writer and yearns for his father's approval which is not forthcoming.  As we follow Joe and Joan on that journey, there are flashbacks to young Joe (Harry Lloyd, who distractingly looked too much like Jim Carrey and Jim Carrey always makes me laugh no matter what kind of role he is playing) and young Joan (the stunning Annie Starke) meeting in the 1950's when he was a professor at Smith College and she was a student and promising writer.  Though he is married with a baby, they embark on an affair and eventually he leaves his wife and marries Joan.  Joe is arrogant and needy and Joan is a good wife. Now they have been married for over 30 years and she looks after Joe, making sure he takes his pills, knows where his glasses are, and has forgiven him his infidelities, all of those things a good wife was supposed to do for her man back in the good old days.

But in Stockholm as Joe prepares to accept his Nobel Prize and Joan plays the role of the dutiful wife, Joan goes from doting wife to a woman tormented by the past and what might have been. And Christian Slater, as biographer Nathanial Bone, who hopes to write about Joe, stirs the pot as he interviews Joan over some stiff drinks.

Jonathan Pryce is always good but almost unrecognizable here with the facial hair and the American accent.  Likewise Annie Starke as the young Joan is wonderful (and she is Close's real life daughter), but this is Close's film.  Though she doesn't say much, her face speaks volumes as it reacts to what is happening around her.  Her face seems like a mask but yet it tell us everything. It's a face masking all of the secrets and locked up resentments of Joan's life.

Adapted for the screen from Meg Wolitzer's novel by Jane Anderson and directed by Swedish director Bjorn Runge, this is the story of a marriage and how so many women who came of age in the 1950's gave up their own dreams to live a life helping their husbands realize theirs.

Rosy the Reviewer says...ring....ring...Ms. Close?  Oscar calling.
(Note:  We saw this film at an "art house" that specializes in smaller films and there were only two other people in the matinee we attended so if you want to see this lovely film, get thee to the theatre now)!

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Lemon (2017)

When his girlfriend leaves him after ten years together, Isaac's life starts to unravel.

Forty-year-old Isaac Lachmann's (Brett Gelman) longtime girlfriend (Judy Greer) has left him and his life isn't working. He is a struggling actor whose most recent work includes a PSA hyping the dangers of Hepatitis C and a commercial selling adult diapers. So he also teaches acting classes to get by. It doesn't help that his seemingly only friend, Alex (Michael Cera with Shirley Temple hair), who is also one of his acting students, is getting some good jobs and bragging about them. However, it's difficult to feel sorry for Isaac because he is socially awkward to say the least.  He is in fact actually quite obnoxious.  

The film is cringeworthy at every turn because Isaac never makes the correct social decision. It's humor is also very dark. For example, Isaac's girlfriend is blind and sells medical supplies. Isaac's acting classes are also quite dark as they illustrate the dynamic of the failed actor as he relentlessly picks on one of his students.  Isaac's favorite is Alex who can seem to do no wrong while Isaac relentlessly picks on Tracy (Gillian Jacobs) who can't seem to do anything right as Alex and Tracy rehearse a scene from Chekov's "The Seagull."  Isaac may only be able to get commercials for adult diapers but, dammit, this is his acting class and he is going to throw his weight around.

Isaac eventually meets Cleo (Nia Long) an African-American make-up artist with a young son and he becomes obsessed with her while at the same time showing his innate racism.

There is lots of star power in this little film that shows all of the posing and false bragging that embodies the actor's life in L.A; how actors are treated in the industry (like pieces of meat); what they have to go through to even get very small parts; the pecking order (you throw your weight around on people seen as below you as Isaac does with Tracy); and the rejection they face every day.  So to cope they create ego laden personas for themselves.  It's as if everyone is acting all of the time even when they aren't.

Written by Janicza Bravo and Gelman (they are married) and directed by Bravo, there is a message to be had here but unfortunately it was overshadowed by the unlikable characters. 

As I said, there are several big names attached to this film. Megan Mullally of the voice that sounds like fingernails on a chalkboard has a fake British accent here that comes and goes, the aforementioned Michael Cera, Judy Greer and Nia Long as well as Jeff Garlin and Rhea Perlman (playing against type), but the film is really all about Gelman as Isaac Lachmann.  Gelman is a writer and actor in real life and has been a fixture on TV.  His character here reminded me of Will Ferrell when Ferrell plays arrogant but clueless characters.  But despite the insights and the good acting, I had a difficult time figuring out why all of these actors wanted to be in this film.

Those moments of insight and the good acting are not enough to save this film which is, er, kind of a lemon.

Rosy the Reviewer says...I like original films, I like quirky films, I like strange films but this one was a bit too original, too quirky and too strange. I can't recommend it.  I don't want you blaming me for this one.

Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom (2018)

Ever since "Jurassic World (2015)," the first in this planned trilogy where the dinosaur amusement park went haywire, the dinosaurs have been living freely on the island of Isla Nublar but are now in danger as a volcano threatens to erupt making the dinosaurs extinct once again.  Owen (Chris Pratt) and Claire (Bryce Dallas Howard) to the rescue!

After the Jurassic World debacle, the dinosaurs are living alone on Isla Nublar but a volcano threatens to erupt.  There are those who believe they should let the dinosaurs die but animal rights groups are fighting to save them particularly the "Dinosaur Protection Group," led by Claire Dearing, who was instrumental in saving them in the last film.

She is approached by billionaire Benjamin Lockwood (James Cromwell), who wants to save the dinosaurs. He was supposedly involved with Hammond (from the first film) in creating the dinosaurs in the first place and he needs her to activate the old park's security systems so Claire works with Lockwood's minion, Eli Mills (Rafe Spall), to save the dinosaurs not realizing that he does not have the dinosaurs' best interests at heart.  In fact, he wants to save them from the island only to auction them off to animal traffickers for millions of dollars.

Claire and Owen had a thing in the last film but are no longer together. However, Claire knows she needs Owen to help her. Owen is living off the grid building a cabin in the middle of nowhere, but Claire finds him and entreats him to help her save the dinosaurs, especially Blue, the little dinosaur that Owen raised from a baby. Owen is not keen.  He wants to be left alone but the two go off and get drunk together, hash over their old relationship, Owen eventually relents and the two, with the help of dinosaur doctor Zia Rodriguez (Daniella Pineda) and computer nerd and scaredy cat Franklin (Justice Smith) - the two also provide comic relief - head to the island to help Lockwood's men save the dinosaurs, not realizing they are actually helping the bad guys.

The volcano does blow and this is where, as an actor, being a good runner and screamer comes in because there is a lot of that.  There are also many scary and up-close-and-personal encounters with dinosaurs especially as the monsters invade Lockwood's mansion.

Meanwhile, Mills is putting his evil plan in play (to weaponize the creatures) but it is overheard by little Maisie (Isabella Sermon), Lockwood's granddaughter.  She tries to tell her grandfather about it but Mills intervenes much to Lockwood's detriment and now little Maisie is in danger.

But you know how these things go.  Our heroes will prevail.

Written by Derek Connolly and Colin Trevorrow and directed by J.A. Bayona, there is a certain comfort in these kinds of movies.  Unlike Forrest Gump's box of chocolates, you DO know what you are going to get. 

  • The film will start with some sort of huge ominous action sequence that forebodes what is to come and someone usually gets eaten
  • There is a reluctant hero who has given up
  • We also have a plucky heroine and...
  • A plucky child
  • There will be a problem that our heroes must solve
  • Lots of big angry dinosaurs (or gorillas or aliens) will abound
  • Some bad guys (animal traffickers have been big this year) will show up to try to thwart our heroes
  • Our reluctant hero is drawn back in by memories, in this case memories of raising little Blue

And we are off and running!  Let's save some dinosaurs!

So even though you know how it's all going to go and how it's all going to end, there is comfort in that, right?  You settle down for a night of escapism that doesn't require a lot of brain waves. could get bored since you have seen it all before. That's what happened to me.  Even though there are some spectacular action scenes, the CGI dinosaurs are fun and the film is quite visually beautiful (Bayona also directed the lovely "A Monster Calls' which I really liked), about half way through, I got bored, especially since I knew how it was going to end. That's why it's sometimes a good thing to watch a movie at home.  You can fast forward through the boring bits.  Once the story became more about little Maisie, it all kind of fell apart.

Oh, but one final trope I missed.  The bad guy usually meets his demise rather spectacularly and this film is no exception.

I enjoy Bryce Dallas Howard as an actress and wish she would do more than this type of film.  I have also enjoyed Chris Pratt in the past.  He had a great deal of charisma in the first "Guardians of the Galaxy" film and even in "Jurassic World," both of which I really liked, but here he seems to be sleepwalking through the whole thing. He didn't even make wisecracks like we are used to.  If it wasn't for Pineda and Smith there wouldn't have been any humor in this thing at all. Since I didn't like him in "Guardians of the Galaxy, Vol. 2," either, maybe he just has a problem with sequels.

Plus Howard and Pratt had zero chemistry.  I thought the same thing about him and Jennifer Lawrence in "Passengers."  Maybe he has a problem with sex. I think it's time for him to be in some kind of sexy thing so we can see if he even has some sex appeal. 

Finally, what the heck was Jeff Goldblum doing in this?  When this was close to release, he was on all of the talk shows hyping the film and come to find out, he is in two very small scenes.  Maybe he was important because he was warning us that another sequel was coming.  Oh, god. 

Rosy the Reviewer've seen it all before so you probably don't need to see it again.

***My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project***

125 to go!

Have YOU seen this classic film?

Hotel Terminus (1988)

A documentary that examines the life of Nazi SS officer Klaus Barbie, the infamous "Butcher of Lyon."

I am going to say at the get go there is absolutely no reason for a film to be FOUR AND ONE HALF HOURS LONG!

That said, this is a fascinating documentary and won an Oscar for Best Documentary Feature in 1989.

Using forty years of footage and interviews culled from over 120 hours of filmed material with former unrepentant Nazis, American intelligence officers, South American government officials and victims of Nazi atrocities, director Max Ophuls (who also directed the incredible "The Sorrow and the Pity - another very long movie") tells an epic tale about Barbie, who was Gestapo chief at the aptly named Gestapo headquarters, the "Terminus Hotel" in Lyon, France - where he tortured and murdered resistance fighters and deported thousands of Jewish men, women and children to the death camps.  

We learn from this film that after the war, he worked with and was protected by the U.S. Army and American intelligence officers because he helped them with their anti-communist efforts.  He was able to ingratiate himself with them because it seems we hated the Russians more than the Nazis! Despite Barbie's crimes, he was allowed to live peacefully in Bolivia for over 30 years until in 1987 he was finally brought to trial in a French court for crimes against humanity.

This film stirs the questions about American and German complicity, indifference, justice...and guilt. It also is a timely take on nationalism.

Why it's a Must See: "A work of art in every sense, [this film] is among the most rigorous as well as the most accessible documentaries about the Nazi era."
---"1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die"

Rosy the Reviewer amazing film but it could have been shorter.

***The Book of the Week***

In Pieces by Sally Field (2018)

Who knew that our little "Flying Nun" had such a harrowing life?

It's all here.  Actress Sally Field spills the beans on the child abuse she suffered growing up as well as everything you ever wanted to know about her relationship with Burt and a great deal more.  I was particularly upset about her stepfather's sexual abuse.  It was really bad for her, I know, but I was upset to learn her stepfather was one of my movie star crushes growing up. Disturbing to learn he was a pedophile.

Raised by a struggling actress mother who divorced her father when she was really young, Sally was raised in L.A. by her actress mother and actor stepfather.  She struggled with insecurities and didn't do well in school but theatre saved her.  Not knowing what she was going to do after high school, luckily she was plucked from obscurity at 18 and landed the TV show "Gidget," which lasted for one season.  The show might have failed but she didn't so despite that show ending, she was off and running.  "The Flying Nun" came next and it was very successful but let's just say that type-casting is real and it took awhile for her to shed that habit and be taken seriously as an actress, particularly since she was a little thing who looked like a child until she was 40.  Hey, she still looks like a young girl at 71!

But then along came "Sybil," the TV version of the best-selling book about the woman with multiple personalities.  Everyone was stunned that our little Sister Bertrille could turn into a woman with so many, how do I say?  Issues ?  And that TV movie led to film roles: "Smokey and the Bandit, "Norma Rae," "Places in the Heart," "Forrest Gump," "Lincoln," and more.  "Norma Rae" and "Places in the Heart" were significant because she won Best Actress Academy Awards for both.  Remember her speech for "Places in the Heart?"  You like me!  You really like me!  But "Smokey and the Bandit" was significant because that's when she met Burt Reynolds.

They did two more films together as well as embarking on a romantic relationship. It's interesting that in his later years Burt has said that Sally was the love of his life.  That's not her take.  She describes him as a regular guy with his own family issues that helped create his charming devil-may-care persona that he showed the world but he was also controlling, lacking in empathy and not particularly interested in her issues.  There's more but you will have to read about it for yourself.

Rosy the Reviewer says...Sally, we do like you.  We really do!  If you like celebrity biographies, this is a good one.  It's candid and riveting.

Thanks for reading!

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Sunday, September 23, 2018

"A Simple Favor" and The Week in Reviews

I am back!  Hope you missed me.  I have been in moving hell for the last month and even the movies couldn't save me.  But now I am back in the saddle, or should I say, theatre seat and ready to save you from seeing some bad movies.

But this week, it's all mostly good...

[I review "A Simple Favor" as well as DVDs "Hereditary" and "Tag."  The Book of the Week is "Small Space Organizing" by Kathryn Bechen where I share my own personal story of downsizing and how I ended up making this big move. I also bring you up-to-date with "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with "Spring in a Small Town."]

A Simple Favor

Nerdy Mommy vlogger Stephanie Smothers (Ann Kendrick) forms an unlikely friendship with sophisticated tell-it-like-it-is Emily (Blake Lively) and then Emily mysteriously disappears.

You couldn't really tell from the trailer whether this was a comedy or a "Gone Girl" kind of thriller. Well, turns out it's actually both.

This is an original take on the missing person story and, through one of the plot twists, pays homage to "Diabolique," the 1955 French film.  And in case you didn't get it, perky French music plays throughout. The film is also a satire on motherhood and a love letter to strong women.

Stephanie is a widow living in Connecticut with her young son, Miles (Joshua Satine), a first grader.  She is also a stay-at-home Mom who tries to be the perfect Mom.  She volunteers for everything at Miles' school much to the chagrin of the other Moms and Dads.  She also has a vlog where she pitches food and tips to other Moms.  Her son is friends with Nicky (Ian Ho), another first grader, whose Mom is the beautiful and elusive Emily, and one day Stephanie and Emily meet at school. Nicky begs Emily to let him invite Miles over for a play date. Emily is a working Mom, married to the handsome Sean (Henry Golding), and she is clearly not on the Perfect Mommy track but reluctantly agrees and Stephanie and Emily bond over strong martinis at Emily's opulent home with sophisticated French music playing in the background.  Emily is one of those women who is brutally honest and doesn't allow any BS.  Stephanie on the other hand is insecure and an overachiever who constantly apologizes for herself.  She is also clearly in awe of Emily who unlike Stephanie never apologizes for herself and in fact tells Stephanie to never say she is sorry for anything.

One day Emily asks Stephanie for "a simple favor," to pick up Nicky from school which she happily does, but then one day turns into two days and it becomes clear to Stephanie that Emily is missing.  Stephanie adds the mystery of Emily's disappearance to her vlog and also joins forces with Emily's husband, Sean.  But it's not long before Emily's body is found in a lake in Michigan.  What was she doing in Michigan?  And it's not long before Stephanie and Sean get it on.  Where the heck is that going to go?  And it's not long before Nicky says he has seen his Mom and she told him to say hello to Stephanie.  And then Stephanie gets a call from Emily.  Huh?

It didn't take me long to figure out one of the main plot twists but then it just got twistier and twistier.  And did I say it's also very funny?

And it's no wonder there is humor because the film is directed by Paul Feig who is also responsible for those funny Melissa McCarthy movies "Spy," "The Heat," and "Bridesmaids."  Adapted for the screen by Jessica Sharzer from Darcey Bell's novel, the humor is unexpected because this is a thriller.  And the humor also deflects from the fact that the plot goes way over the top at the end but you don't care because you've had such a great time watching Kendrick, Lively and Golding go through their paces.

I have never been a big Anna Kendrick fan.  I always found her to be kind of twitchy, her singing voice very nasal and she had too many annoying mannerisms.  But she is very good here and just perfect for the twitchy, overachieving Stephanie who becomes an amateur detective to solve the mystery of Emily's disappearance.  And Blake Lively is well-named.  She is indeed particularly lively here and I have to say she is one beautiful woman and a good actress. And Henry Golding is hot off his success in "Crazy Rich Asians."  Hard to believe this guy had never acted a day in his life and was discovered while being a presenter on a British travel TV show.  All three form an impressive acting ensemble.

Rosy the Reviewer says...think "Gone Girl," but with a sense of humor.

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Hereditary (2018)

After the family matriarch passes away, dark family secrets come to light.

And for this one you couldn't tell from the trailer if it was a horror film or something else.  It's kind of something else, but not in a good way.

Toni Colette rose to fame in "Muriel's Wedding," a bit of froth that gave a larger girl some real heft.  Then she lost a bunch of weight and went on to a career playing varied parts including recurring roles on the TV series "Wanderlust" and "Unbelievable."  She seems to specialize now in warm caring roles such as the one she played in the quirky but touching "Please Stand By."  But here she does a 180, playing the hysterical mother of a teenage son and a thirteen-year-old girl.

Ellen Taper Leigh dies at 78.  The film begins with her obituary and funeral and it becomes apparent that Ellen wasn't an easy woman and that she cast quite a shadow over her family.  Toni plays her daughter, Anne, who doesn't quite know how to grieve for her mother because of their complicated relationship.  Anne is married to Steve (Gabriel Byrne) and has a teenage son, Peter (Alex Wolff), and daughter, Charlie (Millie Shapiro).  She also has kind of a creepy job.  She is an artist who designs miniature dolls and dollhouses and appears to recreate her own family's life with them.

Peter is your typical teenage boy, obsessed with girls, sex, drinking and pot.  Charlie, on the other hand is, how shall I say this?  She is not only allergic to nuts and has this habit of clicking her tongue on the top of her mouth but she is also - creepy.   Let's just say I don't think it's normal to cut off the head of a dead bird and put it in your pocket.  Get what I mean?

Anyway, it takes about an hour of loud, ominous music before anything much happens but then Peter is forced to take Charlie to a party with him where he smokes pot.  She eats some cake that must have had nuts in it while Peter is up in a bedroom smoking pot and when Charlie complains that she can't breathe Peter rushes her out to the car and presumably to the hospital and then something truly gruesome happens.

Anne meets Joan (Ann Dowd, playing a much nicer person than she does in "A Handmaid's Tale") who has lost a child.  She is into seances to stay in touch with her dead son and impresses Anne when she contacts him.  She tells Anne she needs to hold a seance with her family and gives her the incantation.

So now we are off and running.

Turns out our matriarch Ellen not only cast a big shadow over her family she was up to some witchy shenanigans.

Written and directed by Ari Aster, this film is not so much a horror film as a really, really strange movie inhabited by really, really strange people.  Gabriel Byrne doesn't really have much to do except get immolated, the little girl is dispatched with early on, which was a good thing because she gave me the creeps, and, Toni, can I give you some advice?  Stick to the caring friend or girlfriend roles where you can do what you do best which is show your warmth.  You don't do hysterical that well. In this film, she runs around throughout the film shrieking and crying and begging her husband to listen to her. It's not a pretty sight. But the story really centers around Peter and Wolff does a good job. I just wish the movie had been better.

The film was shot in digital which I absolutely hate.  Films in digital look like old TV soap operas.  And speaking of soap operas, this was a sort of one if you liked "Dark Shadows."

Rosy the Reviewer says...Toni, I like you better when you do that warmth thing you do.  Get back to that.

Tag (2018)

A group of guys spend the month of May playing tag and go to great lengths to avoid being "It."  Oh, and did I mention that this is based on a true story and real life adult guys actually did this?

There is nothing I dislike more than comedies with all male casts unless it's comedies with all male casts that aren't funny.   But I am here to report that this film is actually kind of fun and kind of funny.

Hoagie (Ed Helms), Sable (Hannibal Buress), Bob (John Hamm), Chilli (Jake Johnson) and Jerry (Jeremy Renner) are all childhood friends who have kept in touch for 30 years by playing a game of tag every May.

"We don't stop playing because we grow old.  We grow old because we stop playing."

Okay. And they all go to great lengths to tag each other, hence the humor this film is going for.  For example, Hoagie, who is a veterinarian, gets a job as a janitor at Bob's company just so he could sneak up on Bob and tag him. But it's Jerry who has reigned supreme as the only member of the group who has never been tagged. He has had an uncanny ability to avoid every situation where he could be tagged.  But now he's getting married and he wants to retire from the game.

"He's the best who ever played and now he wants to retire with a perfect record."

Oh, no he doesn't. The four decide that they have to tag Jerry just once and what better place to tag him than at his wedding? I mean, he can't exactly run out of his own wedding, can he?  Well, we will see about that.

And actually there are some women in the film. The guys are followed around by Rebecca (Annabelle Wallis), a reporter from the Wall Street Journal, who has been looking for a story to spark her career and when she hears about this group of guys who play tag every year together, she knows she has a story.  And then there's Anna (Isla Fisher), Hoagie's wife, who is almost more into the game than the guys.

It's all dumb fun and games as the four (plus Anna) band together to break Jerry's perfect record. 

Based on a Wall Street Journal article by Russell Adams called "It Takes Planning, Caution to Avoid Being It," adapted for the screen by Rob McKittrick and Mark Steilen and directed by Jeff Tomsic, the film is a bit of fluff but also makes a possibly unintentional statement about male friendships.  Yes, these guys have stuck together every year for their game of tag, but how much meaningful time did they actually spend with each other outside of the game?  Mmmm.

If you stay for the credits you will see the real guys (ten of them, not five) who played this game together for 23 years.

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you need an escape, this is a dumb but fun little romp that won't do you any harm unless there was something important you were supposed to do.

***My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project***

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Have YOU seen this classic film?

Spring in a Small Town (1948)

A bored and lonely housewife is swept off her feet when her childhood sweetheart comes to visit.

Narrated by Zhou Yuwen (Wei Wei), the wife, we quickly learn that she is unhappy in her marriage to Dai Liyan (Yu Shi).  They hardly speak each day and he is suffering from an ailment, though Zhou thinks it's all in his head.

"I don't have the courage to die and he lacks the courage to live."


Liyan hangs out in his garden and broods.  His little sister (Hongmei Zhang) lives with them and her exuberance and charm is in direct contrast to Liyan's dour personality and Yuwen's depression.

The film takes place in postwar China after it had been brought to its knees by the Japanese and Liyan feels like a failure since the war.

Into this sadness comes Zhang Zhichen (Wei Li), a friend of Liyan's who also turns out to have been Yuwen's neighbor and first love.  Zhichen didn't know she had married Liyan.  Zhichen is a doctor and tends to his friend, Liyan, but he also looks yearningly at Yuwen and vice versa. In fact there are lots and lots of longing looks and many regrets and not much else.  Yuwen confesses that she has never loved Liyan and always been in love with Zhichen and things become even more complicated when Liyan tries to fix Zhichen up with Little Sister.

But when Liyan figures out what is going on and overdoses himself on his medicine, there is a moment when Zhichen and Yuwen think that perhaps letting him die would leave things open for them but feelings change and they realize that they can't let him die.

Directed by Mu Fei, a Chinese director from the pre-Communist era, this is a poignant story of a marriage and unrequited love that was declared by the Hong Kong Film Critics Society as the greatest Chinese film ever made and it still holds up today because there are some human feelings and experiences that transcend time and place.

Why it's a Must See: "This masterpiece of Chinese cinema has only recently received the worldwide recognition it deserves, influencing Wong Kar-Wai's In the Mood for Love (2001) and occasioning a respectful remake (2002).  [This film] stands among cinema's finest, richest, and most moving melodramas."
---"1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die"

Rosy the Reviewer says... a mesmerizing tale that did remind me of "In the Mood for Love." Sadly the only place I could find the film was on Amazon Prime and the film quality was poor which didn't make for a particularly satisfying film experience.
(b & w, in Chinese with English subtitles)

***Book of the Week***

Small Space Organizing: A Room-By-Room Guide to Maximizing Your Space by Kathryn Bechen (2012)

Who said, "We don't all get to live in large homes?"  I just did.

Why am I reviewing this book? Well, you may or may not know this and you may or may not have missed this blog, but I have been in moving hell for the last six weeks and that's why I didn't publish anything last week and why I am publishing late this week.

We have just moved 1000 miles away from where we had lived for 14 years.  

We have moved back to where we had lived for 30 years before that move 14 years ago and where we raised our family.  When we moved 14 years ago, our kids were grown with lives of their own and there were no grandchildren. We were also 14 years younger.  But now we are older and there are grandchildren.  We wanted to downsize and be closer to family to make it easier on everyone, so now here we are, down from a 2300 square foot nine room house to a less than 1500 square foot town home with five rooms and a kitchen that is about the size of a closet.

Speaking of kitchens, I have this strange pattern of remodeling a kitchen and then moving.  I did that 14 years ago and I did it again this year.  Since we need to remodel our kitchen in our new home, I'm worried what will happen after that!

So how did I find myself here, in a smaller house trying to get ideas on how to organize a small space?

Well, here's my story.

A couple of years ago I confessed to my son that my life hadn't turned out the way I had wanted it to, mostly regretting that I had moved away from my family.  I was really fishing for my son to say "Come live here," but that didn't happen.  Our daughter lives across country so I fished a bit more and said something like, "Well, what if I moved closer to your sister?"  He didn't take the bait but what he did say was that I needed to move into town (we lived in the suburbs where we couldn't walk to anything) so I could walk to a Starbucks.  He seemed to think that all of the friends I needed to make were hanging out at the Starbucks.  But that remark did make me think that part of my troubles were caused by the fact that I couldn't walk to anything so when I went back home I announced to Hubby that we needed to move into town.  So we started looking but it became painfully clear that moving into town was out of our price range and we didn't see anything we really liked anyway. 

So then I said, OK, we will stay here but I need a new kitchen.  So a new kitchen it was (I documented that painful experience in "My New Kitchen, or How I Survived a Kitchen Remodel...").

Did that solve the problem?  No.  There I was in my new kitchen and I wasn't happy.  I missed my family and my old friends so I told Hubby I wanted to move back "home" where we had lived for 30 years and where we had history.

Did I mention that Hubby was amazingly understanding?  He did sigh a lot, though.

But moving back "home" was not an easy thing.  Moving itself is a horror story but trying to go back to a place where we thought we could never return because of the high home prices is its own horror story but we did it.

And that's how we ended up in a smaller place.

So that brings you up to date and we will finally get to the review of this book.

Bechen has put together a nice little book to help anyone who needs to downsize.  There are chapters on the art of downsizing and even on how to live in just one room.  Fortunately, I haven't had to go there yet!  Bechen addresses how to decide if your rooms are functioning at their best with chapters on making the most of your foyer, how to organize your kitchen, dealing with small bathrooms, crafts and hobby equipment, laundry rooms, beverage bars, storage and more all while not giving up on style. 

Rosy the Reviewer says...a small book to help you deal with small spaces.

Thanks for reading!

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