Friday, August 14, 2015

"Ricki and the Flash" and The Week in Reviews

[I review Meryl Streep's new movie "Ricki and the Flash" and DVDs "It Follows" and "Night Moves."  The Book of the Week is "Missoula" by Jon Krakauer.   I also bring you up to date on "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with Ingmar Bergman's early film "Summer with Monika"]



Ricki and the Flash

 
A woman, who left her family to become a rock musician, returns to help her daughter get over her heartbreak.
 
Ricki Rendazzo (Meryl Streep) is an aging rocker, playing with her band The Flash in a Tarzana dive bar at night and working as a checker at Total Foods (read: Whole Foods) by day.  She gets a call from her ex-husband, Pete (Kevin Kline) in Indianapolis, and he tells her that their daughter, Julie's (Streep's real life daughter, Mamie Gummer) husband has left her and she is not doing well, and he asks her to come and help.  Since Ricki (real name Linda Brummell) hasn't been much of a mother so far or back to visit often, she is reluctant.  But she goes.
 
Diablo Cody's script sizzles at a reunion dinner when the whole family gets together - Ricki, Pete, Julie and her two brothers, Josh (Sebastian Stan) and Adam (Nick Westrate)- and the pent up emotions about theirabsentee mother are released.  It's funny and it's sad, but Ricki remains unapologetic about following her dream.  Later when she laments to Pete about being left out of the family and everything she missed and he reminds her that she left motherhood to become a rock star, Ricki asks "Can't you have two dreams?"

Is Meryl Streep a believable rock star?  Not really, but she is Meryl - frickin' - Streep.  She learned to play a guitar in a month, sang all of her own songs and gave her character the Streep treatment and by the time the film was over, I was a believer.  And she looks damn good for a sixty-something.

Kevin Kline and Streep first worked together back in 1982 on "Sophie's Choice," which was Kline's big screen debut and won Streep an Oscar.  Their chemistry is apparent and Kline holds his own with Streep as her ex-husband, Pete, who seems to still have some ambivalence about the end of their marriage.

Rick Springfield is handsomeness personified.  I used to be a huge fan until I read his autobiography and found out what a womanizing cheater he was most of his life.  But he is aging well and gets to do some guitar solos, though he isn't given much else to do as Streep's love interest.

Mamie Gummer, Streep's real life daughter, does a fine job as Julie, Ricki's heartbroken daughter,r but she does not seem to have yet inherited her mother's acting chops.  She overacts at times, but she is still young and if she sticks to acting, has time to hone her craft.  What better teacher could she have?

Audra McDonald plays Maureen, Pete's wife and Julie's step-mother.  Audra has Tony Awards and Emmys under her belt and more than holds her own in a great scene where the mother and step-mother try to mark their territories. 

But this is Streep's show.

She gets some good speeches about the inequality of parenthood.  Why is it OK for a man to pursue his dreams and his children understand and still love and respect him and consider him a good father?  But when a mother does it, woe to her.

Despite all of this star power and direction by Academy Award winner Jonathan Demme ("Silence of the Lambs") and a script by Academy Award winning Diablo Cody ("Juno"), the film doesn't really break any new ground about the mother/daughter relationship or the expectations of mothers vs. fathers or absentee mothers, but by the time this film was over, I was questioning my own mothering skills and tearing up and that is Meryl working her magic. I also have to say that am also a fan of most films about mature adults aimed at mature adults and will always be because I am one of those.

Speaking of which, there are certainly some negatives to being a Baby Boomer. For one, if you are one, that means you are getting old, and second, Baby Boomers are blamed for everything that is wrong with the world by the younger generation.  But on the upside, there are now so many of us that studios are finally making some films we can relate to, such as "5 Flights Up," "The Clouds of Sils Maria, "Mr. Holmes" and this one, so I am a fan. 

There are some premise issues e.g. if Julie hates her mother so much, it seems a stretch that Pete would ask her to come out and help her daughter.  Likewise, not sure that selling a Gibson SG guitar would pay for airfare for five people, especially last minute airfare these days.

But despite that, the acting is great, especially Streep who has that "thing," that "thing" that draws you in and won't let you go, and the story is engaging. 

Rosy the Reviewer says...it's a feel good movie and if you are a big Meryl Streep fan, you will love this.



 ***DVDS***
You Might Have Missed
(And Some You Will Be Glad You Did)




It Follows  (2014)
 

A young woman has a sexual encounter that somehow transfers an unknown force to her that follows her with evil intent.

What makes a good horror film?

A seemingly benign location such as a lovely tree-lined suburb with sidewalks and modest homes, ominous music, stark cinematography and a young girl in jeopardy.  Voila!

The movie begins with a young girl running erratically around her neighborhood, saying goodbye to her parents and then driving away in a car only to be found dead later on a beach, her body grotesquely mangled.

Fast forward to our heroine, Jay (Maika Monroe, who I really liked in "The Guest") swimming in her pool.  She has a new boyfriend, Hugh (Jake Weary). All seems to be going swimmingly until they have sex.  He chloroforms her and ties her up (I couldn't get over her having matching underwear.  She must have heeded her mother telling her to always wear nice underwear in case you get hit by a car. In this case, the warning must have been in case you get chloroformed and tied up).

When she wakes up Hugh tells her he passed her the "thing that follows" and if it catches her, it will kill her. 

So it seems if you have the "thing that follows" you need to sleep with someone in order to get it to follow someone else. Talk about paying the price for sex!  He warns her to never go to a place with more than one exit and then drops her unceremoniously back home.

I don't mean to make light of having a demon passed on to you, but just imagine someone only wanting to have sex with you to pass on a demon.  Sheesh. Talk about spreading a disease through sex.  Now we're spreading demons?

But this is not so much about paying the price for sex, but rather the moral dilemma of passing something on to someone that you know will harm them and that is Jay's dilemma, because she is actually a very nice girl.

Soon our heroine starts noticing people following her. They are seemingly innocuous, slow moving people only she can see.  But they are not lovely people.  Some have bloody clothes. There is one wearing just one sock.  I question their fashion choices.

This stands as a testament to what kids get up to that their parents don't know about. Jay hits on everyone she can to try to have sex with someone so she can get rid of the demon. She also tries to find the guy who passed it on to her and she enlists her friends to help.

I am having fun with this, but it is actually quite a creepy, terrifying film that appeared on several "Best Picture" lists in 2014.  The cinematography is awesome, the actors are believable, it has a fantastic score and the script and direction (David Robert Mitchell) are all first rate.

The obvious metaphor here is that sex can be deadly, or at least, ruin your reputation. But it also seems to be saying what you do to others can also follow you, and, since this was filmed in the suburbs of Detroit, - you can flee a crumbling city so you don't have to deal with anything unpleasant, but "it follows."

Rosy the Reviewer says...If you like smart horror films or John Carpenter's "Halloween," you will like this.  I loved this!





Night Moves (2013)


Three radical environmentalists plot to blow up a dam.

Jesse Eisenberg (Josh) and Dakota Fanning (Dena) team up with Peter Sarsgaard (Harmon) to blow up a dam in Oregon to release the water to nature. 

Josh is a quiet guy living on a commune.  Dena is a rich girl who we discover is out of her depth, and Harmon is an ex-vet.  All are involved in the radical environmentalist movement.

The first half of the film is slow and methodical as the three plan to blow up the dam and prepare for the execution. There is tension as they drive their boat "Night Moves" to the dam in the dead of night and set the bomb.  However, the second half picks up speed in the aftermath as things start to go wrong and distrust, jealousy and murder creeps into the equation. 

Here are some themes: People who care about the environment, peace and love, still succumb to human nature - the will to survive makes you do bad things despite your values. Be careful who you team up with for a cause.  Zealots can be nutters.  Loners often choose causes to give their lives meaning.

And there is some irony in the tragic ending - it takes place in a woman's Zen therapy salon.

Written (with Jonathan Raymond) and directed by Kelly Reichardt, an indie darling ("Wendy and Lucy," "Meek's Cutoff"), this film raises the question:  is saving the environment more important than human life?  

This is a departure role for Jesse as the character of Josh is a darker character than we have seen him play in the past.  Fanning and Sarsgaard are also good as usual, but it's Reichardt's direction that stars as she creates a quiet but scary atmosphere in which to explore the psychology of activism, leaving us with much to think and wonder about.

Rosy the Reviewer says...a thriller with a message.




***My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project***

 

297 to go!
 


Summer with Monika (1953)


An erotic portrayal of young love and an early example of Ingmar Bergman's artistic vision.

Harry works in the stock room at Forsberg's, a ceramic shop.  He's a bit of an incompetent dreamer. Monika (Harriet Andersson) is a bit of a forward girl who loves the movies and dreams of a Hollywood romance.  She meets Harry (Lars Ekborg) and they fall in love.  When Harry is fired from his job and Monika's life becomes untenable at home, they escape with Harry's Dad's boat to a Swedish archipelago (Orno Island) and spend an idyllic, romantic summer there that epitomizes young love.

However, reality sets in and their love is tested when Monika becomes pregnant and they return to Stockholm to face their responsibilities. They marry. Harry takes his responsibilities as a husband and father seriously and pulls himself together to provide for his family.  Monika, however, is uninterested in the baby, hates having no money to spend on clothes and wants to party.  Monika is not a very nice girl.  Things don't go well for either of them, but Harry will always remember that "summer with Monika."

From the way Harriet was filmed, you can tell Bergman was infatuated with her. In fact, he had an affair with her in the later weeks of filming.  He said that there had "never been a girl in Swedish films who radiated more uninhibited erotic charm." But in addition to his infatuation, Bergman has also created a defiant female character who rebelled against convention, something little seen in movies of the 1950's.

This is an early Bergman film, but his artistry was already apparent:  shots framed by windows, his use of light and shadows.  This is what is meant by "colorful black and white." Some of the close-ups where the characters look directly at the camera were innovative for the time and herald Bergman's later films "Persona" and "The Passion of Anna." When Monika stares defiantly into the camera near the end of the film, you wonder if she is rebelling to assert her independence or slipping into a wanton life.

Why it's a Must See: "Nowhere in all of Ingmar Bergman's films is sensual joy more overwhelming than in the long, island-set section at the heart of [the film]...Much of this passion derives from real life -- Bergman had just discovered the twenty-year-old Andersson...The film is virtually a love poem to Andersson; she was to become one of Bergman's favorite actresses, appearing in eight of his films."
---1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die

Rosy the Reviewer says...A must-see for Bergman fans. 
(In Swedish with English subtitles)



***Book of the Week***





Missoula: Rape and the Justice System in a College Town by Jon Krakauer (2015)


Krakauer examines the crime of acquaintance rape on college campuses and illuminates why it is often not taken seriously by law enforcement and why it is so underreported.
 
Missoula, Montana is home to the University of Montana.  It is not a huge town, but between January 2008 and March 2012, The Department of Justice investigated 350 rape allegations reported to the Missoula Police Department. Few of these reports were handled properly, actually victimizing the rape victim a second time by questioning her honesty. Krakauer turns his critical eye to what happened in Missoula and carefully documents the issue of campus rape.

"College age women are not raped because they are promiscuous, or drunk, or send mixed signals, or feel guilty about casual sex, or seek attention. They are the victims of a terrible crime and deserving of compassion from society and fairness from a justice system that is clearly broken."

Krakauer is the author of "Into Thin Air," about the 1996 Mt. Everest disaster and "Under the Banner of Heaven," a look at extreme religious belief, among other riveting works of nonfiction and here turns his powerful documentary skills to a huge problem.

Many of us see rape as being attacked by a stranger in a dark alley, when in fact most rapes are perpetrated by people known to the victim.  "Date rape" and "Acquaintaince rape" are even more insidious than a vicious attack by a stranger, because the victim often comes under more suspicion than the perpetrator, especially if she is sexually active, was drunk or was attacked by a popular football player.  So it's no wonder that this crime is so underreported.

Here Krakauer tells the stories of several women who were "date raped" or a victim of "acquaintance rape" while students at the University of Montana. Their cases were made all of the more difficult for them because the perpetrators of the crimes were well-liked University of Montana football stars.  No one could believe those boys would have to rape someone to have sex. Because they reported the rapes, the women had to suffer being vilified and shunned in addition to the PTSD, shame and physical traumas they suffered from the rape itself. 

At the end of the book, Krakauer explains why he was driven to write this book.  In 2012 a personal friend told him that she had been raped in her teens and, then, later in life sexually assaulted by a family friend.  As many women do, she did not report it and pushed the assaults away by working obsessively, drinking too much and having indiscriminate sex, which is now recognized as "trauma  recognition," a sexual acting out that is a by-product of the rape experience where women blame themselves and believe they deserved to be raped.

"After Laura told me about what she'd endured, I was angry with myself for being so uninformed -- not only about her ordeal but about non-stranger rape in general. So I resolved to learn what I could about it...Writing this book was an outgrowth of that quest."

"Rapists rely on the silence of their victims to elude accountability. Simply by recounting their stories and breaking that silence, survivors of sexual assault strike a powerful blow against their assailants."

Krakauer is one of the best nonfiction writers alive, my personal favorite, and he is at his best when he is telling the personal stories of his subjects.

Rosy the Reviewer says...this is not as riveting as "Into Thin Air" or "Under the Banner of Heaven," but it's still good and an important book.  We all need to be educated on this issue.



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Tuesday, August 11, 2015

Confessions of a Baby Boomer Consignment Queen: Tips for Making Money on Those Clothes You Don't Wear Because Your Are Retired, Too Fat or Too Old

I may have already mentioned that I have three closets full of clothes. 

I think I might be a hoarder. 

So when I retired, there was at least one closet's worth of clothes I would probably never wear again. 

What to do?



I talked about how to have a successful garage sale back in June of 2014, but you can read between the lines and tell that I will never, ever do one again.

I can't stand to see people going through my stuff, especially my clothes, and asking with disdain if I will take a quarter for my leather moto jacket instead of the $1.00 I am asking (that I paid $300 for)!

When I was working I tried to be trendy, but I mostly wore suits. Since I was the manager, I wanted to have an air of authority.  Now that I am retired, the only ones I have any authority over are Hubby and the dogs, and I don't need a suit to tackle that task.

So with a yard sale out of the question, what to do?

I have discovered consignment shops.

What better incentive is there than money to get you to go through your closets and weed out those size 2 short shorts, the white poet's blouse that makes you look like a mime and those gi-normous hoop earrings that are probably not a good look for a 60-something?



I have to admit I got sweaty the first few times I took my clothes in. 

Well, OK, I still do.  But I can't help it.  Those items were selected especially for me by me and they are my babies, every single one of those 72 jackets I own.  What if they don't want my St. John suit?  OK, I didn't have a St. John suit, but I had nice ones.  What if my clothes are rejected?  What if she doesn't want my fringed Betsy Johnson purse or my purple Steve Madden boots?



I have to say my first experience was quite good.  The consignment shop owner did not sniff disapprovingly at anything and took almost all of my items.  It's been a good relationship.

I have been doing this for almost a year now and have some tips for you first time consignors:


***Tips for Happy Consigning***



The hardest part is going through all of your clothes and accessories.

I know, it's hard, sweaty work and it can be very emotional.  But like I said,   you might make some money.  Let that be your incentive.

But you must be ruthless.  You might say to yourself, if I just lose 40 pounds I can fit into those size 4 capris, again, right?  NO!  You will probably NOT lose that 40 pounds so put those capris in the pile to go to the consignment shop!  That tulle evening dress you wore to your 40th birthday party?  That was 20 years ago! Out!

What about those stripper shoes with the nautical theme?  (Thanks, Hubby). 


You should probably just chuck those.

And the bikini?  Don't even think about it.

Off to the consignment store!  

I don't mean to be harsh but that is how you need to talk to yourself if you are ever going to part with anything. 

You need to have a good eye for what people will want.

I hate to tell you this but people shop consignment stores as if they were at Neiman Marcus. They are fussy. They are almost as bad as garage sale shoppers, but at least you don't need to be there to see them reject your stuff. This isn't vintage shopping, though there are usually some very high end vintage items at consignment stores. 

You must look at your own stuff with a buyer's eye. 

Is it in season?  Is it in good shape?  Is it in style?  Would I buy this again? Would only a stripper by those shoes? All good questions to ask yourself as you select your items to consign.

Choose a shop where you don't have to bring in dry cleaned clothes. 

I mean, by the time you do that, you will owe THEM money.

Certainly you want to take in items that are clean and in good shape, but the first place I tried, that was the deal.  It was run by a couple of old ladies and though I am an old lady myself, my clothes are decidedly NOT.  Many of my items sold, but the shop was not very busy so...

Choose a shop with a good location as in lots of foot traffic.

Thrifting and shopping consignment shops depends quite a bit on browsing and that needs foot traffic.  My favorite consignment shop is in a shopping center so people can shop for groceries and then buy my stuff!

Choose a shop that uses a website that keeps track of your items so you will remember what you have consigned and how you are doing.

Otherwise, it would certainly be easy for you to get cheated. The shop I go to uses a website called MyResaleWeb.  It has drop down menus for your State, then your store.  The store gives you an ID number and when you add that and your last name you can see everything you have left there, what is sold and how much they owe you.  You can also see when it's time to pick up the items that did not sell.  If the store you use, doesn't have something like that you might want to tell them about that website.

Speaking of which, when you first sign up at the consignment store, you usually have the option of getting your items back after the selling period (usually two months). 

I opted to get my items back, but be aware that when you pick up the items that didn't sell, it can be emotional. 

Try not to brood over why someone didn't want your Keep Calm and Get Over It t-shirt or your Union Jack top from Forever 21....  or better yet, maybe just tell them you don't want to see the stuff again and to give it all to Goodwill.



Now march yourself into your closet right now and start pulling out all of those clothes and shoes you will never wear again!

I'm sorry.  I don't mean to be harsh but you and I both know it needs to be done.  And you will thank me when those consignment checks start rolling in.

Then you can go shopping for more clothes!

Happy consigning!

 
Thanks for Reading!

See you Friday

for my review of the new movie 
 
"Ricki and the Flash" 

and
 
The Week in Reviews
 
(What to See or Read and What to Avoid)

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 I Die Project."



 
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Friday, August 7, 2015

"Mission Impossible - Rogue Nation" and The Week in Reviews

[I review the new movie "Mission Impossible: Rogue Nation" and DVDs "Men, Women and Children" and "The Drop." The Book of the Week is "What Comes Next and How to Like It" by Abigail Thomas.  I also bring you up to date on "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with the Russian classic "The Cranes are Flying" and review the new Edmonds restaurant "Salt & Iron"]

 
 

 
 
Ethan Hunt (Tom Cruise) is back.  This time he needs to eradicate The Syndicate, a rogue organization that wants to eradicate the Impossible Missions Force (IMF) and cause worldwide chaos.  Hunt has to get them before they get him.
 
It's actually not just The Syndicate that wants to get rid of the IMF. The head of the CIA, Alan Hunley (Alec Baldwin), also wants to get rid of it, feeling it has gotten out of control, so the IMF is under attack on two different fronts. 
 
Ethan's boss at the IMF, Brandt (Jeremy Renner), calls Ethan in but Ethan needs to find Solomon Lane (Sean Harris) who he suspects is running The Syndicate.  He also wants to know which side beautiful Ilsa Faust (Rebecca Ferguson) is on.  So he is disavowed by the U.S. government and is on the run, while at the same time trying to find out what evil plan The Syndicate is going to pull off next.
 
Simon Pegg, star of his Three Flavours Cornette Trilogy ("Shaun of the Dead," "Hot Fuzz" and "The World's End") provides comic relief as Benji, Ethan's sidekick who provides behind the scenes back-up for Ethan, much as Melissa McCarthy did for Jude Law in the recent summer blockbuster, "Spy." Ving Rhames rounds out the IMF team.
 
The plot is really quite simple which I was glad of.  I can't tell you how many times I watch spy movies and the plots are so intricate I don't have a clue what's going on.  Here it's just find the head of The Syndicate before he does his dastardly deeds with a few red herrings thrown in along the way.
 
Written and directed by Christopher McQuarrie, this is a thrilling ride.
 
The opening scene with Ethan hanging from the outside of a jet as it takes off is heart pounding.
 
There is also a spectacular "Phantom of the Opera" segment in the Vienna Opera House while "Turandot" is being presented.  You know, the opera with "Nessum Dorma" that we all first heard in "The Killing Fields?"  Ethan fights the bad guy up in the flies above the stage with that fantastic music playing in the background. That theme was also used during the romantic scenes, what few there actually were between Ethan and Ilsa.  Delicious.
 
Another thrilling segment features motorcycles racing through the streets and surrounding area of Casablanca.  People getting rammed, motorcycles falling all over the place.  Great stuff.
 
It's one amazing stunt after another with that wonderful "Mission Impossible" theme music (Lalo Schifrin).
 
Yes, it's far-fetched at times, but Ethan Hunt is that kind of operative.  Master of disguise, knows what is going to happen before the bad guy does, and can get out of impossible situations.  That's why it's called Mission Impossible. Though I never understand why the bad guys always want to capture him, tie him up, and torture him, giving him an opportunity to escape.  Why don't they just shoot him and be done with it?  I felt the same way about James Bond. That, of course, is their undoing.  Speaking of James Bond, the thrills mixed with the fun here reminded me of the original James Bond films before they got so dark.
 
My only criticism was that the dialogue was sometimes clichéd and melodramatic but that's only a minor thing. We all know this isn't real life, right?
 
The cast is first-rate and Rebecca Ferguson (Queen Elizabeth in "The White Queen") is a stand-out.  She is beautiful and a badass and her Ilsa is a perfect foil for Ethan.
 
Now I want to say a few words about Tom Cruise.  I know there are many Tom Cruise haters out there. No matter how good the film, many can't help but take cheap shots that he is really very short and others have not forgiven him for Scientology so it seems more people don't like him than do. I have been a long-time fan of Tommy, ever since I spotted his handsomeness in "Taps" way back in 1981.  I don't care that he is short.  He can't help that.  As for the Scientology thing, we can only hope he sees the light.  A different one.  But he is a good actor and he is very good at the action film. Tom is 53 and still doing all of his own stunts.  Amazing.  Another reason I think he is hot!
 
Rosy the Reviewer says...an action film at the top of its game. This is the best "Mission Impossible" yet.  Thrilling and lots of fun!  See it in IMAX!



***DVDS***
You Might Have Missed
(And Some You Will Be Glad You Did)
 
 
 
Emma Thompson narrates this indictment of technology that examines how the Internet affects teens and their parents.
 
An all-star cast has come together to make a statement about how the Internet has affected how we communicate.
 
We have a girl addicted to anorexia sites, a young guy addicted to porn, a mother who is obsessed about her daughter being victimized on the Internet so is constantly "cleaning up" her phone and computer, a football player who wants to quit football so he can concentrate on playing video games, a mother who has left her family and keeps in touch via Facebook and a husband and wife playing Words with Friends while they are in bed together instead of talking or having sex.
 
Don (Adam Sandler) and Helen (Rosemarie DeWitt) Truby are a married couple who on the outside seem to be happy, but they are living separate lives. Don likes to masturbate to porn on his computer but when his computer goes down he uses his son's computer, only to discover his son's porn activity.  He is horrified.  It's one thing that he likes to do it, but not his son!  Don is also not happily married.  He signs up for an escort service.  He doesn't realize that his wife (Rosemarie DeWitt) is also unhappy and has signed up on the Ashley Madison website.
 
Tim (Ansel Elgort, who wowed in "The Fault in Our Stars") is a high school football star who no longer wants to play football.  He wants to spend his time playing computer games. As far as his teammates are concerned, that is heresy.  But Tim doesn't care. He cares more about his online gaming friends than his teammates and is mourning his mother leaving his Dad.  He is in the midst of teenage nihilism, quoting Carl Sagan who said we are just all molecules and thinking that we are somehow important in this vast cosmos we inhabit is silly.
 
Patricia (Jennifer Garner) is terrified that her daughter Brandy (Kaitlyn Dever) will be victimized on the Internet so is constantly monitoring Brandy's every move.  She is right about the potential evils of the Internet but she is such a pain in the ass about it that she has ruined her relationship with her daughter and even her friends.  The irony is that she spends more time on the computer checking her daughter's activities than communicating with her daughter. If she would just talk to her daughter she would find out more.
 
And that's the point here.
 
Everyone is communicating on their phones and devices but not with each other.
 
Jason Reitman has written and directed another thoughtful film ("Juno," "Up in the Air").  This time he uses the Internet and social media as a metaphor for our inability to share our innermost thoughts and feelings with living, breathing human beings sitting right next to us. Everyone wants to make a connection but they don't know how. No one knows what their kids are doing and the adults and married people don't know what each other is up to either. Maybe if they got off their computers and starting talking to each other they might find out.
 
The adults in this film are using the Internet to find what they've lost and the kids are using it to find what they have not yet had.  The Internet was supposed to make communication easier and bring us all closer together, but it has in fact driven us all further apart. It's friends in real life vs. our online friends.
 
Usually when Adam Sandler is in a film these days, it means the film is going to be terrible.  But not this time.  He's only IN this one, he isn't producing it, thank god.  It's not an Adam Sandler film.  Whew! Adam Sandler is actually a good actor and puts in a toned down and believable performance here. 
 
Garner is good as the uptight mother obsessed with her daughter's Internet activity and Judy Greer, a much underrated actress, is wonderful as the mother who is trying to get her daughter into show business. Likewise, DeWitt is another actress who consistently puts in great performances, but is still not well-known.
 
Rosy the Reviewer says...Now get off your computer and see this film!
 

 

 
   The Drop (2014)



 An unassuming bartender finds himself at the center of a robbery gone bad.

Tom Hardy is Bob Saginowski, a bartender at Cousin Marv's in Brooklyn.  Cousin Marv (James Gandolfini in his last film) runs the bar and is actually Bob's cousin, but the bar is owned by Chechen hoods, the kind of guys you don't want to cross. Cousin Marv's is a "drop" bar in that illegal money is dropped there to be laundered.  Marv and Tom nightly retrieve the envelopes of cash that are dropped there, count the money and place it in a safe.  They have been doing this for so long it's business as usual. 

Bob is a good-hearted Catholic boy.  We know this because he finds a puppy in a garbage can and rescues him.  That's how he meets Nadia (Naomi Rapace, the original "Girl With The Dragon Tattoo"). The garbage can is in front of her house and she agrees to babysit the dog for awhile and a relationship develops between them.  

When the bar is robbed, the Chechen gang is not happy and they want their money back, which is a real problem for Marv and Bob. As Marv puts it, if we could find the money we would know who robbed the bar which would mean we were in on it which means we are dead.

Tom Hardy is amazing here.  From "Locke" to Bane in "The Dark Knight Rises" to Max in "Mad Max: Fury Road" to this, we see his range.  He is an English actor, but from the accent he effectively employs here, you would never know it. His acting range is amazing and in every role, he just gets more and more amazing.

I didn't think I would like this movie but it is an absolutely riveting movie experience.

From the script by Dennis Lehane (based on his own story "Animal Rescue")  to the direction by Michael R. Roskam to the wonderful acting, this is a taut crime drama that will keep you on the edge of your seat.

Rosy the Reviewer says...a wonderful thriller made all the more thrilling by Tom Hardy's mesmerizing performance.
 



***My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project***

 
298 To Go!
 
 
 
Young lovers are separated by the W.W. II German invasion of Russia.
 
Boris (Aleksey Batalov) and Veronika (Tatyana Samoylova) are in love but when the Germans invade Russia in 1941, Boris enlists without telling Veronika.  She is angry with him but then unsuccessfully tries to find him to say goodbye. No one hears from Boris and they assume he is dead.  

As the bombing begins, Veronika takes shelter in the subway but her parents stay behind at their apartment.  When she returns, the apartment has been bombed and her parents are dead.  Boris' family invites her to stay with them and Boris' cousin Mark who has avoided going to war and also lives there.  Mark pursues Veronika and seduces, read that rapes, her. They are shamed into marrying and Boris' family does not forgive her for betraying Boris.  Women always get the blame!  Mark is a philanderer and they are not happy together.  Things look bleak for Veronika and she contemplates taking her own life until she rescues a little orphan boy, also named Boris, thus giving her something to live for as she holds out hope that Boris will return. 
 
Why it's a Must See:  "In the last years of Stalin and Stalinism, Soviet cinema almost vanished. The continuing economic devastation wrought by World War II, as well as the pervasive fear that defined everyday alife, caused the once-thriving Soviet studios to practically close shop.  after Stalin's death in 1953, a reborn Soviet cinema slowly began to emerge, and the film that came to symbolize that rebirth was Mikhail Kalatozov's The Cranes Are Flying...It also became the first Cold War-era Soviet film to receive wide distribution (by Warner) in the United States."
---1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die 

Samoylova looked like a 1950's Audrey Tautou, her face beautiful and expressive.  This was her first role and she shot to fame, but the Russian government blocked her from starring anywhere outside of the Soviet Union. Ten years later she starred in a Russian production of "Anna Karenina (1967)."  In 1993 she was deemed "The People's Actress of Russia."

Kalatozov worked in Hollywood on a diplomatic assignment and the Hollywood influences are apparent here with the juicy close-ups and production values. This film won the Palme d'Or at the 1958 Cannes Film Festival, the only Russian film to ever win that high honor. 

Kalatozov collaborated with cinematographer Sergei Urusevsky who used a hand-held camera well before this became a popular cinematic device.  There is a sequence where Veronika, failing to say goodbye to Boris as he leaves for the front, rushes to find him.  The camera follows her from her looking out of the bus window to getting off and weaving through the crowd and eventually panning up to see her crossing between some tanks rolling down the street.  A cinematic moment before its time.
 
Rosy the Reviewer says...a classic of Russian cinema that deserves to be seen.
(b & w, In Russian with English subtitles)





***Book of the Week***

 


A series of essays and musings about aging, family, the writing process, friendship and coping with life's disasters, big and small.

Thomas, whose book "A Three Dog Life," was named one of the best books of 2006 by the L.A. Times and the Washington Post, is now in her 70's and shares the loss of her husband, her family, her daughter's breast cancer, how she is spending her retirement (painting on glass in addition to writing), and yes, stories about her dogs.

I call these musings because some of the "essays" are only a few sentences long.  But she draws you in as she copes with not smoking, drinking too much, failure, being forgetful, and that final great unknown:  death.

There is some wisdom here:

"I hate chronological order...The thought that this happened and then this happened and then this and this and this, the relentless march of event and emotion tied together simply because day follows day and turns into week following week becoming months and years reinforces the fact that the only logical ending for chronological order is death."

"Love can accommodate all sorts of misshapen objects: a door held open for a city dog who runs into the woods; fences down; some role you didn't ask for, didn't want.  Love allows for betrayal and loss and dread. Love is roomy.  Love can change its shape, be known by different names.  Love is elastic.
And the dog comes back."

And humor:

"What are these awful days?...I can't rouse myself longer than half an hour before I again climb the stairs with the dogs for another long nap...But if this lasts too long, Jennifer alerts Catherine and Catherine calls Chuck, and someone comes over to see if I'm OK. 'Your daughters are worried about you,' says Chuck this morning. "I came to see if you were dead."

Speaking of Chuck, the major part of this book centers around the long friendship Thomas has with a man ten years her junior. I have always said men and women cannot be friends.  They like to say they are friends, but I would bet you a million bucks that one or both would jump the other if the green light was given.  I believe this because I have seen it happen time and time again, and I also believe that people - men and women and even those of the same sex - are attracted to each other in some visceral way.  We are friends with certain people because we are attracted to them.  That said, she never did get it on with this guy per se, but he got it on with her DAUGHTER!  Now what does that tell you?

Rosy the Reviewer says...everyone in mid-life will be able to relate.
 
 
 

***Restaurant of the Week***
 
 

Salt & Iron
 
 
 



 


 
 
 
From the slick long bar to the great food to the friendly staff, this newish restaurant in Edmonds should be part of your foodie repertoire. 
 
The sign of a good restaurant is a small, manageable menu so that attention can be given to each item.  And that's the way it is here.  Just the right amount of choices for variation, but not so much choice you feel like you are at Denny's.
 
Favorites so far are the grilled corn, the seafood chowder and the steak salad, but I look forward to trying all of it.
 
At Happy Hour, the prices are lower but it's still many of the same food choices as the regular menu.  But get there early as the bar fills up quickly starting at 4pm.
 
Rosy the Reviewer says...a fine dining destination in Edmonds to rival Seattle restaurants.


Thanks for Reading!


That's it for this week.


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Tips for Making Money on those Clothes
You Don't Wear Because
You are Retired, Too Fat or Too Old

 

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