Friday, September 23, 2016

"Sully" and The Week in Reviews

[I review Clint Eastwood's new movie "Sully" as well as DVDs "Hologram for the King" and "The Lobster."  The Book of the Week is a true crime story in the wake of the final days of apartheid in South Africa - "We are Not Such People."  I also bring you up-to-date on "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with the classic film noir "Out of the Past."]


Dramatic re-enactment of "The Miracle on the Hudson."

And don't say "What's 'The Miracle on the Hudson?'" Because if you don't know what "The Miracle on the Hudson" was, you must have been living in a hut since 2009 with no TV, Internet or radio, smoking ganga with a primitive people who have yet to be discovered!

Why does someone like me, who is a white-knuckle flyer at best, watch a film like this?  Well, aren't we all fascinated with things that scare us most?  And since we all know how this ends (and if you don't, refer to what I just said in the preceding paragraph), I watched because I wanted to see a possible plane disaster that ended well.

Tom Hanks plays Chesley "Sully" Sullenberger, a ex-military pilot with over 40 years experience as a commercial pilot.  On January 15, 2009, as his U.S Airways plane took off from New York's La Guardia airport headed for Charlotte, N.C. the plane was hit by a large flock of geese which took out both engines.  Sully had about 40 seconds to decide what to do.  Realizing he could not make it back to La Guardia or Teterboro airports, he decided his best course of action was to land the plane in the Hudson River.  And that's what he did. With 155 passengers and crew on board (or as they refer to passengers in the airline industry, "souls"), all survived thanks to the quick thinking and EXPERIENCE of Sully Sullenberger. This is the ultimate homage to us old folks and the value of experience. 

The film begins with Sully having nightmares about the event and his anxiety about being judged for that one flight at a hearing, where his judgment is called into question and he has to justify landing in the river.  You see, airline companies are not fond of losing their aircraft.  They would have much preferred that Captain Sullenberger had gotten that plane back to the airport in one piece.  Why didn't he?

"After a 42 year career carrying millions of people safely from place to place I don't want to be judged on 208 seconds." 

There was some dispute about whether or not he was really grilled like that by the NTSB as depicted in the film.  Doesn't matter.  A film about a real life event doesn't necessarily have to replicate it - we need drama after all - but the point was made.  Someone who has done a job well for 42 years knows what he is doing.

You might wonder how this film could be interesting since you know the outcome, but let me tell you, from start to finish this film is gripping and moving.

There is a scene showing the plane losing altitude as Sully gets ready to land the plane in the Hudson River.  As people look out the windows of the high rises and see this plane going down, down, down, almost as if heading toward them, one can't help but wonder if they were thinking of 9/11.  Likewise, just as the people of New York City pulled together after 9/11, so did the ferries and the first responders come together to save the survivors of the plane crash and quickly get them out of the freezing river.  I think Clint meant for us to get that connection.

Speaking of Clint, Clint Eastwood directed this film and, I have to say, Clint may be old and scaring us by talking to a chair at a Republican Convention, but he can still direct a damn fine film.  Once again, old also means experienced.  And credit must be given to Todd Komarnicki's screenplay(adapted from Sullenberger's memoir "Highest Duty") which is tight, gripping and creates a "you-are-there" feeling for the audience.

Hanks gives a fantastic performance and seems to embody Sullenberger.  I say an Oscar nomination is in the works for him, though this film was released earlier than most Oscar contenders and might get forgotten.  Aaron Eckhart as Sully's co-pilot is also excellent, though in a small part. Likewise, Laura Linney has a small role as Sully's wife, but doesn't have much to do except act concerned.

I couldn't help but compare this film to Paul Greengrass's "United 93," the film about the plane that went down in Pennsylvania on 9/11.  Though it had a very different and tragic outcome, it highlighted the heroism of people under pressure on an airplane, and for some reason, I find such films compelling, moving and emotional.

Ring, ring, Mr. Tom Hanks? Oscar calling.  My first nomination of the year.

Rosy the Reviewer says...I cried.  It was that good.

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Hologram for the King (2016)

An American salesman travels to Saudi Arabia to sell his computer product to a wealthy monarch in hopes of salvaging his career.

From the sublime to the ridiculous.

Well, it's not that bad, but there was Tom Hanks starring as Sully Sullenberger in "Sully (see above)" and then there was Tom Hanks starring as a struggling salesman in this one. He's everywhere these days.  It's not a bad film, it just doesn't do him justice and doesn't really go anywhere. 

Alan Clay is a salesman with problems.  He is caught in the recession, his career is not going well, he has lost his house, he doesn't have the money to send his daughter to college and he is getting divorced. He is also suffering from panic attacks.  As a last ditch effort to resurrect his career, he travels to Saudi Arabia to the King's Metropolis of Economy and Trade to sell his company's holographic teleconferencing software to a king.  Let's just say that Alan is also having a midlife crisis.

Using similar plot devices to "Whiskey Tango Foxtrot," - fish out of water, the sympathetic driver, the love interest, the desert - this film puts Alan in an almost Kafkaesque world of cold bureaucracy, where the king is never available and Alan waits and waits an wonders if he will ever meet him.  So what do you do when things aren't working out for you?  Why you go on a road trip.  Alan's driver takes him to Mecca where Alan takes some pictures which is a no-no and he is mistaken for a spy working for the CIA.  He also meets a woman doctor and an affair ensues.  And those are the exciting parts.

Though Hanks is always good, one wonders why he was attracted to this project.  It doesn't really add anything to his resume and certainly doesn't showcase his talent like "Sully" does.

Written and directed by Tom Tykwer, who wrote and directed one of my all-time favorite movies, "Run Lola Run," and based on Dave Eggers' 2012 novel which was a National Book Award finalist, I wanted to like this movie.  But I couldn't help but think that despite all of that star power (Hanks), literary background (Egger's novel), and the director of a movie I loved, what happened?  Why was I wondering, "What's the point?"  What started out as an interesting idea - how a middle-aged guy copes with globalization and a mid-life crisis - was never fleshed out and just fizzles out into a run-of-the mill love story.

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you like Hanks, see "Sully" instead.

The Lobster (2015)

There is good news and bad news. The bad news is that in this dystopian world, unmarried people are sent to "The Hotel," where they must find a mate within 45 days or they will be turned into an animal.  The good news is: you get to choose your animal.  Our hero chooses a lobster.

The film begins with a long shot of a woman driving.  She sees a donkey, stops, gets out and shoots the donkey and then calmly gets back into the car and drives away.  Huh?

Next we see our hero, David (Colin Farrell) at "The Hotel." David has had a marital break-up and we discover that in this world, one must have a mate.  One cannot be a "loner." 

"How easy life is when there are two rather than one."

He is read the rules by the hotel manager, played by the wonderful Olivia Colman, who you may recognize from the equally wonderful "Broadchurch," and David dutifully accepts his fate and goes along.

 It's a sort of macabre match-making hotel. 

The rules are these:  If you don't fall in love within 45 days you will be turned into an animal.  However, you can't just pick anyone  You have to have something in common with that person. In the meantime, no masturbation.  If caught, something very bad happens to you like having to put your hand in a toaster.  You are also required to go on hunts at night, hunting loners and shooting them with tranquilizer guns. The more loners you round up, the more days you get added on to your 45.  It's a sort of "Hunger Games" for singles.

There is a funny scene where the hotel staff enacts scenes to show how bad being alone is e.g. what if you choke and there is no one to save you?  What if you are attacked and there is no one to defend you?

David meets his fellow inmates, a guy with a lisp (John C. Reilly) and a guy with a limp (Ben Whishaw) and the three pal around. They all must find a woman with a similar trait. There is a girl who has nosebleeds and is an expert at getting blood stains out.  Our guy with the lisp feels like he will never find anyone so he bangs his head against the wall until his nose bleeds.  Voila!  He now has something in common with nosebleed girl and they couple up.

David meets a woman who is near sighted (Rachel Weisz).  So is David, so now he has something in common with someone.  She introduces him to the loners in the woods and their leader (Lea Seydoux, who you might recognize from "Spectre" and "The Grand Budapest Hotel.").  The loners plan on raiding the hotel and killing all of the couples. David and his match decide to become loners and ironically, the loners also have enforced rules: you are forbidden to couple up.  Naturally David and the short-sighted gal fall in love and then the trouble really begins.

The feel of this film brings Kafka's "Metamorphosis" to mind and the strange characters and world they live in reminds me of the films of Wes Anderson.  The score is strident and discordant, fitting for the anxiety these people must be feeling trying to find someone to love before they are turned into animals

This unique story was written by Yorgos Lanthimos and Efthimis Filippou and directed by Lanthimos.  This all sounds very strange, I know.  You have to have been there, as they say.  But this is a phenomenal film.  One of my favorites of the year.

Farrell is good at playing a confused, morose guy out of his element and is very believable and draws you into this strange world with him.  Rachel Weitz is also very good.  Despite her Best Supporting Actress Oscar in 2006, I don't think she gets enough credit for her work, probably because she doesn't often carry a film on her own, so looking forward to her upcoming starring role in the film "Denial."

The film is a black comedy, a grim satire on "the rules" of love and relationships that today are especially confusing, seemingly governed by computer apps.  It also seems to say that we value being in a couple above all else and will do anything not to be alone, even bang our heads against a table until our nose bleeds.

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you like your films fresh and original, this is a unique film experience that should not be missed.

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Have YOU seen this classic film?

Out of the Past (1947)

An ex-private eye tries to escape his past running a gas station in a small northern California town but his past catches up with him.

When I reviewed the classic film noir "Murder My Sweet" back in June, I listed all of the requirements a movie must meet to be considered film noir: hard-boiled detective, beautiful but double-crossing dame, snappy dialogue, and lots and lots of know the drill.  And this film does not disappoint, thanks mostly to star Robert Mitchum, who just about defines the hard-boiled detective with his hooded eyes, sarcastic snarl, ever-present cigarette dangling from his pouty lower lip and relaxed demeanor, no matter how many times he is double-crossed.

Here he plays Jeff Markham AKA as Jeff Bailey. Jeff has moved to a small town, changed his name, opened a gas station, has a nice girlfriend, Ann (Virginia Huston), and is trying to mind his own business, that is, until Joe (Paul Valentine) shows up.  Joe has been looking for Jeff and tells him that he needs to go meet Whit Sterling (Kirk Douglas) in Lake Tahoe. 

Jeff takes Ann with him and while making their way to Lake Tahoe, Jeff confesses who he really is, and through flashbacks (another film noir device), we learn that Jeff was a detective. Whit Sterling had been shot by his girlfriend, Kathie (Jane Greer), and she had run off with $40,000 of his money.  Whit had hired Jeff to find her.  Jeff tracked her to Mexico , but you see, these women who shoot their boyfriends and run off with their money, are not to be taken lightly.  She had worked her magic on our hero and the two started a relationship.  They tried to elude Whit and his minions but were eventually tracked down and then Kathie shot yet another guy and disappeared.  Kathie is not a very nice girl.  So Jeff had decided, since he had double-crossed Whit, he had better get a new identity and hide out from Whit, and that's how he ended up in that small town.

Now back to the present.

Jeff has been found by Whit's henchman and is heading back to face the music with Whit.  But who should be there with Whit?  Why, it's Kathie!  Whit has forgiven her and Whit, in every bit of unctuousness that Kirk's acting can muster, tells Jeff he's not mad for double-crossing him and trying to run off with his girl, but if he wants to make things right with him, he needs Jeff to get some documents from his lawyer.  It seems that Whit hasn't been paying his taxes and his lawyer is blackmailing him.  Whit's lawyer has the documents that show that Whit has been remiss and Whit will face prison if the tax man finds out. It's the least he can do for Whit after trying to run off with his girl, right?  Jeff agrees but soon learns that he is being set up.  Let's just say there are two more murders to come and all at the hands of our little Kathie.  Kathie is one badass dame!

Why it's a Must See:  "[This film] adapted from Daniel Mainwaring's novel Build My Gallows High, may be the masterpiece of film noir.  All the elements are there: the woman who lies...The bitter past that rises up again and destroys the main character [and] The private eye...a man of wit and know-how who makes the mistake of giving in to his passion -- more than once."
---"1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die"

As I watch these old films, I feel sad that no one probably remembers these actors anymore.  I mean, have you ever heard of Rhonda Fleming (she plays a small part here before her career really took off)?  And yet, she was one of my Dad's favorite actresses.  My Dad also liked to check the credits to see famous actors at the beginnings of their careers, back when Tony Curtis was Anthony Curtis and Cary Grant was still Archibald Leach.  In this film we see a very young Kirk Douglas who plays a supporting role in what was only his second feature film. Likewise, Rhonda Fleming went on to become the star of many westerns and costume films (who can forget "Serpent of the Nile?")

My favorite thing about film noir movies is the dialogue:

"A dame with a rod is like a guy with a knitting needle."

"Shall I take you somewhere else?"  "You can take me anywhere."

"Do you always go around leaving your fingerprints on a girl's shoulder?  Not that I mind particularly.  You have strong hands."

"Oh, Jeff, I don't want to die."  "Neither do I, baby, but if I have to, I'm gonna die last."

Rosy the Reviewer says...a darn good story with a very bad girl.  They don't make 'em like this anymore


***Book of the Week***

We Are Not Such Things: The Murder of a Young American, a South African Township, and the Search for Truth and Reconciliation" by Justine Van Der Leun (2016)

Van Der Leun examines the murder of Amy Biehl, a white American Fulbright scholar who, in 1993, was brutally murdered by a mob of young black men outside of Cape Town during the final days of South Africa's apartheid. 

Amy Biehl was 26 and had been living in South Africa for a few years, working as an anti-apartheid activist with a special interest in women's issues.   Her murder was a cruel irony.  Because her parents forgave her murderers, she became a symbol of the Truth and Reconciliation process in South Africa, where those who were deemed freedom fighters were pardoned for their crimes.  Amy became a symbol of the process working.  However, the more Van Der Leun examined the case, spoke with eye-witnesses and befriended one of the so-called killers, not only did the accepted facts not add up but perhaps her convicted killers were not her killers after all.  Van Der Leun  spent four years investigating Amy's story and stumbled upon people and incidents that belied what the prevailing wisdom had been.  What was the truth?  Would she ever unravel the truth?

As Amy's story unfolds, so does the story of South Africa and its people.  Van Der Leun has written an absorbing (if a bit long) and fascinating insight into the history and current political reality of South Africa where one of the convicted killers says "The truth is not anymore existing for years and years."

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you are interested in true crime in the vein of Truman Capote's "In Cold Blood"or the history of South Africa and apartheid, you will enjoy this book.

That's it for this week!

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The Week in Reviews
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Tuesday, September 20, 2016

The Ten Commandments of Retirement

I know my blog seems like self promotion much of the time, because I am always showing pictures from my childhood, pictures of myself in "get ups (as my mother used to say)" and talking about my life.


But I always hoped that people realized I was making fun of myself as much as I was making fun of what I was talking about (well, I made fun of Hubby, too, but he's used to it), and that, though much of what I wrote about was tongue-in-cheek, I was also trying to inspire women like myself, impart information about what it's like to be a "woman of a certain age" and to just have some fun with where I was in my life. I was also hoping that Oprah would discover this blog and pull me out of obscurity. Unfortunately, that never happened, but, believe it or not, there were actually people out there who said they enjoyed my pictures and what I had to say.

Before I get into today's topic, I want to say that I have been wrestling with whether or not I should keep pushing myself to publish a Tuesday post. 

If you are a regular reader, you know I publish my movie and book reviews every Friday, but I reserve Tuesday for my "rants," as I call them, but which are really my take on what's going on in my world as a "woman of a certain age" and the world around me. I reminisce, bitch and try to inspire, while also trying to be humorous, but I am thinking that perhaps I don't have that much to say every single week.  If you asked Hubby he would most certainly say I have much to say EVERY DAY, but I want to write things that are at least fresh and funny, if not important. 

In my Tuesday blog post, I have tried to inspire women of a certain age to not give up because they have accumulated a few pounds and a few wrinkles and to let them know they are not alone in their retirement and aging struggles.  I also hoped to help the younger generation understand such people - we retired women of a certain age - and also to be funny, to inform, to get a conversation going, to make you think...but I have also stressed myself out about meeting my self-imposed deadlines.  Even when I went on vacation, I would work extra hours beforehand to have some posts ready to make sure I would publish on my regular schedule so I wouldn't disappoint my regular readers, even if I was in Victoria, B.C. or Timbuktu (I actually have never been to Timbuktu but it made me sound cool, right?). 

In the last three years since I have retired I have published 342 posts - two per week without fail - and there have been over 100,000 page views, though I would sure like to say 1,000,000 page views. 

I started writing this blog a little over three years ago, right before I retired, as an antidote to my fears and anxieties about retirementOne week in, I was losing my mind a little bit and even started wondering whether dogs ever retired or what it would be like to be a retired Real Housewife.  But once I started feeling comfortable, I started sharing what I had learned about myself in retirement in the hope that it would help others who were struggling. About one year in, I finally got it - The joy of retirement - and just recently, I found the ultimate "key" to a happy retirement.  

Likewise, since I was a librarian for over 40 years, I enjoyed talking about libraries and librarians and trying to smash the myths around them with "Why I Love My Library," "Why We Need Librarians," "Interview with a Librarian" and "Things Librarians Hate." Then my blog sort of morphed into my thoughts on aging and what was going on around me and a way to review my life, past and present with an emphasis on TV, my love of pop culture, my trips and activities and my pet peeves, which I called my "rants."

But now I am no longer struggling with retirement (I LOVE it!). I  think I have come a long way and I have certainly documented all of that in my blog over the last three years, so I think I have probably said everything I need to say about what I have learned.  Likewise, about libraries and librarians.  And getting older?  I think I've beaten that horse too. I also think I have exhausted my views on TV, Kim Kardashian and other pop culture topics and ranted my little head off about most of the things that bug me. I even shared my colonoscopy and my menopause, so if I would go there, you can tell I was already stretching my search for topics a couple of years ago! Though, I will say, if you are going to have a colonoscopy, you might want to read that one!   It's funny, if I do say so myself.

I have also tackled a wide variety of other topics:

And those are just a small percentage of the posts I have written over the last three years (and if you are interested in others, there is an archive on the right side of this blog that goes back to the very beginning).

But you can see I have a wide range of interests that I wanted to share, and I shared every Tuesday no matter what.

However, that dedication is starting to take its toll, especially since all of that extra work hasn't resulted in Oprah discovering me which is disappointing.  Even my adult children rarely comment or share my posts. I also find myself writing blog posts in my mind lying in bed at night and when I wake up in the morning.  It has become a lot of pressure and I'm retired.  I'm not supposed to be under pressure anymore!  So I am thinking it is time to re-evaluate. 

So that I don't show signs of dementia and start repeating myself, I think it's probably time to take a breather on Tuesdays and concentrate on my Friday movie and book reviews with the occasional restaurant and concert/theatre review thrown in. 

Now, those of you who are my fans, and I so thank you for your support, that doesn't mean I am done with my editorializing. 

It just means that I might not publish one of my rants every single Tuesday, but when I feel inspired I still will.  Because you see, I really feel that one of my purposes in life is to communicate.  I need to do it and feel that sometimes at least I do it well.  So it's not the end of me, just a regrouping.  So please don't forget about me.  And as the classic C & W song says, "How Can I Miss You if You Won't Go Away?" 

So I am going to go away for awhile and hopefully you will miss me.

(And if you are unfamiliar with the song, here it is.  I always aim to be helpful).

As I said, I will definitely continue to write my movie and book reviews and try to see all 1001 movies I am supposed to see before I die and report back.  I always wanted to be a movie critic and I don't think there are many of those who speak from, shall we say, a mature point of view - and with a sense of humor - so that fulfills one desire, but the other one is...I don't really have anyone to talk movies with. 

Remember when we were young and would go to the movies to see the latest Antonioni or Bunuel and when it was over go to a bar and emphatically talk about the film?  I don't have that.  Hubby and I watch movies together, but he's a guy and once he says, "That was good," it's over.  So in writing my reviews I was hoping to get responses, and though some of you do respond when I post my blog on FB, I haven't really gotten any community together or a conversation going via my blog. Maybe blogging has become passe and everyone has moved on to vlogging or some other bit of social media. But I am still hoping and you can still find me on IMDB and on my site on Fridays.

Anyway, thank you everyone for your support and I hope you will still look for Rosy the Reviewer on my site on Tuesdays as well as Fridays, even though there might not be a new post every Tuesday anymore.  But I will still be posting my rants, just not every week. But on Friday, you can still expect to see my trenchant, pithy and sometimes humorous movie and book reviews in Rosy the Reviewer's inimitable style!

Now as a sort of farewell and so you won't miss me too much (but remember, this isn't really goodbye) on to a Tuesday rant.

I have been retired now for over three years and though the first year and a half was a bit rocky, I think I have come out of the early retirement shadows and seen the light.

If you compare some of my early posts to recent posts, you can easily see that.  But now I think putting all of that together, I can condense them all down into ten easy "commandments" that I hope will be helpful to the struggling newly retired and those who are uneasily contemplating it.

The Ten Commandments of Retirement


1. Thou shalt no longer have a boss or, if thy can manage it, a landlord, and thou shalt be happy about that.

We are grown-ups.  Who wants someone telling us what we can and cannot do, right? You now no longer have to do anything you don't want to do. So if you are mourning the loss of your job, think about it like that.  And if you are mourning the loss of your job so much that you are thinking about getting another job, don't!  Give it time.  You will come to enjoy your own company.

2. Thou shalt not get up until at least 9:30 (or thou wilt give the rest of us retirees a bad name).

3. Thou shalt not feel guilty about what thee watches on TV or what thee read-ith or what thee enjoy-ith.

There are snobs and haters out there who are meant to bringeth you down but they are probably not retired and pissed off about it. Thou have earned thy guilty pleasures so don't feel guilty.

4. Thou shalt not worry about meaning in thy life now that you are retired, because thy existence is meaning enough. No matter how oldeth you geteth you will always be YOU, that same person you have always been and think you are when you aren't looking in the mirror.

5. Thou shalt enjoy thyself and not feel guilty about doing whatever the hell you want. 

Do what you love.  It's never too late to be a rock star!

6. Thou shalt have wine or champs for lunch if thy wish it.

Why not?  It's not like you have to go back to work or anything, right?

8. Thou shalt always have a sense of humor about thyself!



8. Thou shalt not look old or act old.

Thou shalt stay connected, get out in the world, look trendy, wear make-up and get up front at rock concerts!

And if your find yourself reaching for the Ben Gay, counting out every penny from your coin purse at the grocery store and holding up the line or, worse, going to the store in your pajamas, read "How Not to Look Old" and "How Not to Act Old" for inspiration.

9. Thou shalt loveth thy grandchildren with all thy might.

Even if they live far, far away. 
(I tackled that issue in "Parenting and Grandparenting from a Distance.")

10. Thou shalt never give up or go "gentle into that good night," though you might take a break from time to time.

And that's what I am going to do.

But I will still publish my reviews on Fridays and for my "rants," please check in from time to time on a Tuesday or come see me at my Rosy the Reviewer Facebook page at

Thanks for Reading!
See you Friday

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The Week in Reviews
(What to See or Read and What to Avoid)

and the latest on

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 I Die Project."

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