Friday, May 17, 2019

"Poms" and The Week in Review

[I review "Poms" and the DVDs "Serenity" and "The Escape."  The Book of the Week is "Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young: The Wild, Definitive Saga of Rock's Greatest Supergroup" by David Browne.  I also bring you up-to-date with "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with "The Kid Brother."]


I just saw one of the worst movies of the year (or perhaps ever).  And this is it.

There was a time when Diane Keaton didn't need Woody or "The Godfather" and could carry a movie on her name alone.  Remember "Looking for Mr. Goodbar," "The Little Drummer Girl" and "Mrs. Soffel?"  Once again she stars, but this time she acts like she would rather be anywhere but there.  And that's how I was feeling in the theatre watching this film.

I feel bad about that, too, since this movie was aimed at my demographic, and Lord knows, we women of a certain age need movies about us.  But let's have realistic movies about us, not silly, frivolous depictions of aging. And the film uses old lady tropes that are supposed to be funny.  Why is it funny when an old lady says "f**k?"

Anyway, the story centers around Martha (Keaton) who is suffering from cancer.  She has decided not to fight it, to sell her belongings and her New York apartment, and to end her days in a retirement community in Georgia.  OK, let me start there.  Who in their right mind would do that?  Didn't she have any friends in New York after living her whole life there?  Why would she move to a retirement community to be left alone to die? And a retirement community in Georgia when she lived her whole life in New York? That's all a stretch. But then we wouldn't have our comedy, now would we?  Or a stab at one.

When she arrives, Martha is greeted by the equivalent of the Welcome Wagon, except it's actually a golf cart.  She is given a tour of the facility by Vicki (Celia Weston), the leader of what would be the equivalent of high school "mean girls," except this time it's old lady arbiters of local protocol and Martha learns that she is required to join at least one of the clubs that are part of the retirement community.  And she can even start her own club, if she wants to, opening the door to the "poms" part of "Poms."

In the meantime, it seems Martha has a neighbor who likes to party.  Sheryl (Jacki Weaver) likes to play loud music and hold poker games and after a rocky start (Martha calls Chief Carl (Bruce McGill), the local cop on her for playing loud music), Sheryl takes Martha under her wing and the two become friends.

One day Sheryl is over at Martha's house and sees Martha's old cheerleading uniform draped over a chair in the living room.  OK, here I go again. I thought Martha got rid of everything before she moved.  The movie started with a big yard sale on the streets of New York (another stretch).  Why in hell would she keep the cheerleading uniform and what is it doing lying around her living room?  Why, it's there so she can get the idea to start a cheerleading club, of course.  And does the uniform still fit?  Of course it does!

So out of the blue and still dying, Martha decides to start her own club.  A cheerleading club.  Naturally Celia, the leader of the mean girls and arbiter of good taste, doesn't want her to do it (why she cares, I have no idea), so there are some dumb things that go on there with Celia trying to stop the group. And speaking of dumb, there is also a young high school cheerleader (Alisha Boe), who was originally a mean girl and skeptical of the geriatric cheerleading squad, who out of the blue, does an about face, stands up to the other mean girls and helps the old ladies out by teaching them to cheer (really big stretch). Of course, Martha and her girls prevail, and in so doing, female empowerment and all of that.

The other ladies consist of Alice (Rhea Perlman), whose husband forbids her to join the group - "over his dead body!"  And guess what? He conveniently dies, thus ridding Alice of a controlling husband and paving the way to finally do what she has always wanted to do.  No, not join the cheerleading club, but - curse! But, yes, she joins Martha's cheerleading club along with Sheryl and the other ladies: Helen (Phyllis Somerville), Olive (Pam Grier), Phyllis (Patricia French), Evelyn (Ginny MacColl) and Ruby (Carol Sutton) - you need 8 members to form a club.  And why these women would want to join the club or even be in this movie is beyond me.

Written by Shane Atkinson (I should have known it was a man!) and directed by Zara Hayes (who also co-wrote), this movie is a bore. You can see what is going to happen from miles away, and who really cares about a bunch of old ladies starting a cheerleading club?  The fact that Martha is dying is barely touched upon, and, if I was dying, I certainly wouldn't want to move to a retirement community in Georgia where I knew no one to spend my last days nor would I want to start a cheerleading club. Just couldn't relate. But, hey that's me.

I am happy to see older actresses getting work, and I actually rather enjoyed Jacki Weaver. It's also good to see Pam Grier and some of the other character actresses you may recognize.  They do what they can with what they were given except Diane who clearly seemed to be trying to find a way out of there.  Sleepwalking came to mind.

I know I should be on the side of this film because, as I said, this was aimed at my demographic and it meant well (I think). I really do want to see shows like this. For example, I love "Grace and Frankie." But I am not going to give this film props just because it's about older ladies and meant well. A film needs to be some kind of worthwhile experience such as funny or uplifting or cathartic.  None of those apply here.  And if Diane Keaton didn't want to give this thing her all, why should I join her club?

There was fodder here to really camp things up.  Sometimes movies can be so bad they are good but even that wasn't the case.  It was just bad. Pretty bad when my favorite things about the movie were seeing Pam Grier wearing a workout outfit I actually own and a lamp I bought at Target in Martha's bedroom.  Faint praise indeed.

Rosy the Reviewer says...terrible.

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Serenity (2019)

A fishing boat captain's past catches up with him and nothing is as it seems.

I belong to a Fantasy Movie League where each week we try to  determine what the weekend box office will be for a combination of films.  I remember when this film was part of the mix and it did not perform well at the box office, despite a star-studded cast. But I am not a particularly huge Matthew McConaughey or Anne Hathaway fan so when I started watching this film I wasn't expecting much.

But I liked it!  Mostly.

Baker Dill (McConaughey) is the down on his luck captain of a charter fishing boat named "Serenity," living on an island off the coast of Florida.  Baker is also after "the big one," a big tuna that vexes him "Old Man and the Sea" style.  He lives in a shipping container with the bank breathing down his neck. 

Dill's ex-wife, Karen (Hathaway) appears from his past film noir style.  She tells Baker that her husband, Frank (Jason Clarke), is abusing her and her son but he is too well-connected (i.e. he's a bad guy) to divorce.  So she wants Baker to kill him.  She will give him ten million dollars if he takes her husband out on the boat and dumps him in the ocean. Conveniently, Frank has already booked a charter on Dill's boat.

Weaving in and out of the story is a banker-type dressed in a black suit who keeps trying to make contact with Baker and Constance (Diane Lane), a mysterious character who is always looking for her cat.

The film is film noir but sometimes a bit too noir-y as in over-dramatic.  The dialogue was also really bad at times, and it didn't always make sense, but I have to say, despite all of that, the film drew me in and I wanted to know what was going to happen. 

This is your classic "woman wants to rid herself of her abusive husband so she enlists the help of a clueless/needy/not very bright guy" movie. But nothing in this film is as it seems, and turns out, it's really a scifi/thriller, and I give it props for originality and surprise. Yes, it's kind of bad but unlike "Poms (see above review), it's so bad it's good. And actually, when the plot is revealed, it possibly explained a few things like why the dialogue was so bad. 

I will give you a hint about the twist:  I once had a friend in middle school who told me we could all just be living in a corpuscle in a giant's blood.  I know, a bit nihilistic for a middle schooler.  That gave me the creeps but also was the start of my interest in exisentialism.  I even started a philosophy club in high school with one of my friends. So that's your hint about the twist and as always, a little something about me.

Written and directed by Steven Knight, who wrote "The 100-Foot Journey" and "Eastern Promises," and wrote and directed "Locke (one of my favorite films)," the film is reminiscent of "Inception" with a little "Body Heat" thrown in. I am guessing that Matthew was drawn to this film so he could show off his dramatic acting chops and not have to say "Alright, alright, alright."  And I have to say he did "alright, alright, alright."

Rosy the Reviewer says...the film is over-the-top but poses the questions, is life a game? And how much free will do we really have?  It's worth taking a look.  But I never did figure out what the cats were all about!

The Escape (2017)

Who doesn't think about escaping one's life?

Well, Tara (Gemma Arterton) doesn't just think about it. She does it.

Tara is a married woman with two children.  She lives in England with her husband, Mark (Dominic Cooper), who is a demanding, insensitive guy who takes Tara for granted and wants to have sex all of the time and doesn't notice that she doesn't really want to. Eventually, Tara decides enough is enough, but unfortunately, in this film it takes forever.  I sometimes wish movies would get to the point.  Alright, already.  We know she is unhappy because she looks off wistfully into space and walks aimlessly.  We get the picture.  She is unhappy and unfulfilled dealing with the dreariness of being a suburban wife. But we eventually get to "the escape part," and then the film gets going.

Tara sees a book of medieval tapestries ("The Lady and the Unicorn") which inspires her to take an art course.  But after several incidents that shows us just how unhappy Tara is, she finds herself just leaving.  She takes off to Paris and leaves Hubby to deal with the dreariness of everyday life.  And then the film becomes a kind of Parisian travelogue where Tara wanders the streets of Paris on her own.  And guess what?  She finds those actual tapestries (at the Musee de Cluny)...and a guy.  Of course, she finds a guy.

The two have a one-night stand and turns out Phillippe (Jalil Lespert) is also married. But Mark calls Tara and begs her to come back and he eventually comes to get her in Paris.

And that's that...but there is a bit of a twist at the end.

Written and directed  by Dominic Savage, this is a slow-moving affair that doesn't really tell us anything new about a woman who is bored with her marriage, but the main reason to see it is Arterton, a beautiful actress who started out as a Bond Girl in "Quantum of Solaceand has gone on to prove herself a wonderful actress. I loved her in "The Disappearance of Alice Creed." She is an underrated actress who I would like to see more of.

Rosy the Reviewer says...if you like slow-moving British marital dramas, you might like this...but probably not.

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The Kid Brother (1927)

The weakling son of the local sheriff gets to show that "mettle is stronger than muscle!"

When I think of Harold Lloyd, I always think of him hanging from a clock face in "Safety Last."

Never thought of him as a cowboy until now.  But what's funny, even though this is a western, he still wears his trademark pork pie hat and suit.  In fact, everyone in this wears a suit! 

Harold Hickory (Lloyd) is the smallest and weakest of a family of musclemen.  His father is the local sheriff and his two brothers are brawny.  When a medicine show comes to town, Harold meets Mary Powers (Jobyna Ralston), a lovely young woman who is recently orphaned and who, now that her parents are gone, must run the medicine show by herself.  Harold rescues Mary from the advances of Sandoni (Constantine Romanoff), one of the medicine show's workers, and Harold and Mary have an instant connection.

Meanwhile, Harold's father and brothers have gone to town to pass a resolution for a new dam.  Harold is not allowed to come because "the meeting is for men, not boys."  Money for the dam is put in the care of the sheriff and when it goes missing he is accused.  But in fact it's Sandoni who has stolen the money and Harold gets an opportunity to fight Sandoni once again, get the money back, save his dad's reputation and prove he is a man.

In this day and age of social media and information and images coming at us so fast and loud, you have to be a real movie lover with an interest in the history of film to be able to appreciate silent films.  But just think, when "moving pictures" were rolled out to the public in the early part of the 20th century, imagine what an amazing thing that must have been. Now when I watch them I am also amazed at how little dialogue is actually needed to tell a story.  It's true - "A picture is worth a thousand words" - and silent films are a clear expression of that saying.

Harold Lloyd was part of the triumverate that also included Charlie Chaplin and Buster Keaton, but Lloyd is probably not as well known today as the other two.  But he was actually considered funnier and guess what?  He really is funny.  And you know what a grump I am about comedies.  With his pork pie hat and horn-rimmed glasses as his trademarks, even in this, a western, he goes through a series of slapstick vignettes that are quite funny and I usually don't like slapstick humor.

Why it's a Must See: "Harold Lloyd is often regarded as the 'third genius' of silent American comedy, his 1920's work often more successful with the public than that of Buster Keaton and Charlie Chaplin...[This film], Lloyd's second feature for Paramount, is often considered to be the bespectacled comic's best and most holistic film."
---"1001 Movies You Must See Before You Die"

Rosy the Reviewer says...a surprisingly enjoyable romp back in time.

***The Book of the Week***

Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young: The Wild, Definitive Saga of Rock's Greatest Supergroup by David Browne (2019)

The inside story of how Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young got together and what happened before, during and after.

Ever since Crosby Stills & Nash (and later with Young) hit the scene, I was a fan but I learned some stuff from this book.

  • Did you know that Stephen Stills was originally asked to be part of a TV show featuring the formation of a pop band?  He didn't want to do it because he would be required to turn over his writing to the production company so he recommended his friend, Peter Thorkelson.  Guess what TV show that turned out to be?  Can you imagine Stephen Stills as a Monkee?

  • On the cover of their first album, you probably already noticed back in the day that Crosby, Stills and Nash are not sitting on that couch in band name order.  When that was noticed, they went back the next day to the house where they took the picture to rectify the situation but the house had been torn down!  And, despite rumors and popular opinion, that is not Neil Young looking out the window.

  • Though Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young played Woodstock, Young was edited out of the movie -- because HE TOLD THE FILMMAKERS TO! Something about not wanting to bend to commercialism.  Neil is an odd guy.

  • I also learned that David Crosby was an arrogant pain in the ass but we already knew that, right?

Longtime journalist and writer for Rolling Stone, Browne delves deep into what made these four men tick and how they came together to form one of the most influential rock groups of the 60's and 70's. Browne starts in the early days of each, how their careers took off and then Browne follows them all the way through 2018, and though the entire story is fascinating, what is really intriguing is what happened after the group broke up and what the four are doing today.  

Four men couldn't be any different but when singing together they created a unified sound like no other.  There probably isn't one Baby Boomer who can't immediately recognize a Crosyby, Stills & Nash or Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young song.

Rosy the Reviewer says...a fascinating rock biography.  One of the best of the year!

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Friday, May 10, 2019

"Long Shot" and The Week in Reviews

[I review "Long Shot" as well as DVDs "Mary Poppins Returns" and "Welcome to Marwen."  The Book of the Week is "Women Rowing North: Navigating Life's Currents and Flourishing as We Age" by Mary Pipher.  I also bring you up-to-date with "My 1001 Movies I Must See Before I Die Project" with "No Man's Land."]

Long Shot

The unlikely romance between the beautiful U.S. Secretary of State and a schlubby journalist.

It's difficult to believe that the beautiful Charlize Theron (pronounced Thron) has never starred in a romantic comedy.  On a recent talk show she talked about this, saying that she has mostly played killers and ass-kickers.  But as I always say, the more beautiful the actor, the more he or she fears not being taken seriously so is drawn to parts where he or she looks less than beautiful and can emote dramatically.  Case in point, Charlize's Oscar came from the film "Monster," where she played the rather masculine and unattractive serial killer Aileen Wuornos.

So, Charlize finally gets to play against that usual type, this time playing Charlotte Field, the glamorous Secretary of State, who falls for Fred Flarsky (Seth Rogan), a nerdy but principled guy in this mostly fun rom-com.

Now let me rant a bit about this concept.  

Why is it perfectly OK for a gorgeous woman to fall for a geeky nerd who would not be called handsome no matter how you shave his neck, comb his hair and put him in a tux?  We think nothing of that.  But what if the movie was in reverse?  What if Chris Hemsworth fell in love with Olive Oyl, then what? I mean, no offense to Seth Rogan, but I am sure even he would say he is no George Clooney and the movie IS called "Long Shot," which, in part, refers to the likelihood of such a hook-up as Fred and Charlotte. I'm just saying, we can accept a beautiful woman falling for a less than handsome man, but get all sweaty when it's a handsome man falling for a homely woman.  OK, rant over.

Charlotte Field is the U.S. Secretary of State with ambitions to run for President. (As things have gone so far in this country, I would say another long shot reference)?  When the flunky, inept President (Bob Odenkirk), an ex-TV star (ring a bell?) tells her he is not seeking a second term so he can become a movie star, she seeks his endorsement.  Meanwhile, Fred has left his job as a journalist for an alt paper when he discovers the newspaper has been bought by a Murdoch-like mogul owner (Andy Serkis) of a newspaper congomerate. Fred's morals just won't let him work for such a man.  Fred and Charlotte meet at a fundraiser and the two realize that Charlotte was once Fred's babysitter.  He had a mad crush on her then and remembers her as a high principled teen. When Charlotte discovers that Fred is a writer, she hires him to help her with her speeches as she stumps for President and, well, you know how this is going to go...

And most of it is a fun journey.

I say most of it, because, well, I think comedies and I don't get along.  Or I am just a big grouch.  I haven't liked one for quite awhile, even ones that everyone else seemed to think were funny like "A Bad Moms Christmas" and  "Isn't it Romantic?"  Don't get me wrong, this one isn't really bad. Rogan is always fun to watch as he puts his foot in his mouth and now we know Charlize can do comedy. I mean, what can't she do? And I loved O'Shea Jackson Jr. as Lance, Fred's best friend, and the love-hate relationship between Charlotte's image-maker, Maggie (June Diane Raphael) and Fred is funny, though Raphael plays exactly the same character here that she plays on "Grace and Frankie." But I just didn't laugh much.  And isn't the "com" part of rom-com supposed to mean comedy?  And aren't comedies supposed to be funny?

Whether I laugh or not is one thing, but sometimes comedies also make me mad.  What makes me mad are comedies rooted in reality that jar you and stretch that realm of reality just to get a laugh, and this one has some of those. For example:

  • Fred jumps out of a window two stories up to escape a white supremanist group he has infiltrated and lands on a car  -- walking away unscathed.  Huh?
  • Charlotte is supposed to be a very moral, liberal public servant.  How did she get appointed Secretary of State by a President who is clearly a Donald Trump character?  I'm just asking.
  • And what's with the use of the "F" bomb?  OK, I guess it's kind of funny to have the Secretary of State say it - THE FIRST TIME.  But when it is thrown out there all of the time, it loses its shock value. I am certainly not a prude when it comes to swearing, but in this film it turned into a distraction.  And I am not even going to get into the raunchy stuff.  If it's a Seth Rogan movie, you know there is going to be raunch.

Grousing about the state of the current comedy genre aside, there is an enjoyable sweetness to the relationship between Charlotte and Fred, thanks to Charlize and Seth. 

Written by Dan Sterling and Liz Hannah and directed by Jonathan Levine, all in all, this film is in the right place. It has some things to say about our current political climate, the love story has charm, there are some laughs to be had, and the characters are mostly believable, except an aging TV star becoming the U.S. President?  Who would believe that?

Rosy the Reviewer says...a mostly charming little love story that works because of Rogan and Theron.

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Mary Poppins Returns (2018)

The Banks children have grown up, but their lives haven't turned out as they had hoped, so it's time for Mary Poppins to return and spread some of her magic around once again.

Michael Banks (Ben Wishaw) has fallen on hard times.  Michael's wife has passed away leaving him to care for their children and his home is being repossesed.  He is hopeless with money because his wife always handled the practical side of the marriage.  He needs to pay the mortgage in full in five days or he loses his house. Jane (Emily Mortimer) is single and a labor organizer and is trying to help Michael.  They remember that their Dad was a banker and owned stock in the bank but naturally they can't find the paper that shows he did.  If he did, that would save the day, but they don't know where the stock certificates are.

Did I just say save the day?  It's time for Mary Poppins (Emily Blunt) to return!

Or is it?  I kind of wish Mary had stayed where she was - in the glow of Julie Andrews'  iconic performance.  And you can't help but compare this film to the original.

Emily Blunt is perfectly fine as Mary except when you compare her to Julie Andrews.  It just ain't the same.  Julie had a constant twinkle in her eye that made everything she did and said magical. Julie was fully invested as Mary Poppins.  She was Mary Poppins whereas I could feel Emily acting as Mary Poppins.

Also the music is forgettable.  When we walked out of the original Mary Poppins we were singing, "A spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down, the medicine go downnn, the medicine go downnn..." and "Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious."  Now, I can't remember one song that was in this remake.  And believe it or not, there is actually a sing-along version of this film!

Directed by Rob Marshall who also directed "Chicago," there is nothing particularly wrong with this movie. It just lacked magic. And it was a sequel/remake, and you know how I feel about those!  Disney is in the midst of remaking all of its classic films and I am not particularly happy about that but the almight dollar calls, I guess.

But I feel bad about not really loving this film. I don't want to complain about musicals because in general musicals have gone the way of the dinosaur and I love musicals.  When I was growing up, musicals were a common occurrence.  Now they are rare.  And it's ironic, because in this time of such divisiveness, we need to see people spontaneously dancing in the street and singing love songs more than ever!

The film sports a star-studded cast.  In addition to Blunt, Winshaw and Mortimer, Lin-Manuel Miranda is a nice addition as Jack, the lamplighter and he actually sports a competent cockney accent. Colin Firth and Meryl Streep also make appearances, and it was fun seeing Dick Van Dyke.  But I wondered why Angela Lansbury had a cameo?  She wasn't in the original, was she?

However, despite my reservations, this sequel/remake (not sure what you would call it) written by David Magee, John DeLuca and Marshall, is a good one for today. It's a reminder that no matter how old we get we will always be that little child who could use a Mary Poppins who shows us that nothing is impossible.

Rosy the Reviewer says...I respect this film as a musical, but as a sequel/remake, I would prefer to just remember the original.

Welcome to Marwen (2018)

The strange tale of Mark Hogancamp (played by Steve Carell), who was beaten within an inch of his life and helped heal himself through his art.

Directed by Robert Zemekis, who has brought us some really wonderful movies, this one is a very strange film, indeed. It's based on the true story of Mark Hogencamp who was beaten up outside a bar for telling some guys he liked to wear women's shoes (something that is not explained or fleshed out at all in the film) and the beating resulted in him losing his memory.  So as a sort of rehabilitation, Hogancamp created a fictional doll-sized WW II Belgian town - Marwen - in his back yard with a set of dolls, a GI Joe doll, his alter ego, Hogie, an American pilot who was shot down by the Nazis and who runs a bar there called The Ripped Stocking, and the "Women of Marwen," several Barbie dolls, who all do battle with the Nazis. Hogancamp would pose the dolls and photograph them which became part of his therapy. An award-winning documentary - "Marwencol" - was made about Hogancamp and his art.

Co-written by Zemekis and Caroline Thompson, this biopic takes license with the story, animating the dolls and going back and forth between Hogancamp's actual life and the fictional world he has created with the dolls, but instead of generic Barbie dolls, Zemekis has fashioned the dolls after characters in the film who were heroine's for Hogancamp: Hogancamp's neighbor Nicol, played by Leslie Mann; Anna (Gwendoline Christie), a nurse who helped Hogancamp recover; G.I. Julie (Janelle Monae), his physical therapist; Roberta (Merritt Weaver), who works in the hobby shop where Mark gets his supplies; Carlala (Eiza Gonzales), the bartender at the bar where he was attacked; and Suzette (Leslie Zemekis), Mark's favorite porn actress.  There is also a witch named Deja (Diane Kruger), who keeps showing up. It's a kind of film within a film as the dolls weave in and out of Hogancamp's real life to re-enact life in the WW II town. 

The film is a worthy cause, I guess, telling Hogancamp's story and trying to show the healing power of art - but it just didn't work. It was overly sentimental except when the film went down some sexually kinky roads.  The whole thing just didn't make much sense. The story that the dolls tell is forgettable and, when woven into Hogancamp's story, the film was just a big jumble. Zemekis might have been hoping to produce another "Forrest Gump," but no such luck. This is just another example of a film that didn't need to be remade.  Why not just leave "Marwencol" alone?  And Steve Carell was a strange choice for Hogancamp. He made Hogancamp seem very creepy. I wouldn't think the real life Hogancamp would appreciate the characterization.

The film has a good message, "Women are the saviors of the world," (I like that), but as gun-toting dolls?

Rosy the Reviewer...creepy and sappy. Not a good mix.

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No Man's Land (2001)

During the Bosnian conflict, three soldiers find themselves stuck in "no man's land," that space between where the lines are drawn.

It's 1993 and a Bosnian relief squad is headed to the front but are ambushed by Serbs. Only two survive, Ciki (Branko Djuric, a dead ringer for Jon Hamm) and Cera (Filip Sovagovic), though Ciki is shot and Cera knocked unconscious.  A Serbian veteran and his partner, Nino (Rene Bitorajac), arrive to survey the damage.  Thinking that Cera is dead, they set a bomb underneath Cera hoping that when his compatriots try to move him, it will blow everyone to smithereens. It's a "bouncing bomb." Once set and weight is placed on it, nothing happens.  But as soon as the weight is released, kaboom! As soon as Cera moves off the bomb, it will explode. But Cera is not dead. Ciki shoots the veteran but Nino is left with them and the three must work together to survive.

U.N. forces arrive as does a British news crew.  When it becomes clear that the bomb cannot be disarmed, the three become victims of the politics and corruption of nationalism and war.

"No man's land" is a term used to describe the disputed ground between the front lines of two opposing armies.  This film shows that it is also a place where no man (or woman) should be - war itself.

Why it's a Must See: "[Written and directed by Danis Tanovic, this film] is a bleak affair, indeed, but a meaningful cinematic experience can be found in its dark, dark comedy of errors wherein forthright patriots festoon one another on the symbolic bayonets of their rifles."

Rosy the Reviewer says...a very tense and sad film that reminds us of the horrors of war.

***The Book of the Week***

Women Rowing North: Navigating Life's Currents and Flourishing as We Age by Mary Pipher (2019)

Despite ageism, misogyny and loss, we older women could be the happiest we have ever been. Find out how.

Pipher, who wrote "Reviving Ophelia," the definitive tome on raising teenage girls, now examines the cultural and developmental issues women face as they age.  And it's mostly good news.

But first, the bad news:

  • Loss of control
  • Loss of identity
  • Loss of loved ones
  • Health issues
  • Misogyny
  • Sexually devalued as in becoming invisible
  • Mother-in-law jokes and other old lady stereotyping


Now for the good news:

  • We have choices
  • We replace old roles with new roles
  • We are happier than we were in our 20's, 30's and early 40's with the peak of happiness at the end of  our lives
  • Lower levels of anxiety, depression and stress
  • We can be advocates for change and create our own communities
  • We care less about our wrinkles and stretch marks
  • We have appreciation for family and friends
  • Some of us enjoy our grandchildren
  • We gain gratitude for life
  • We learn that the most important relationship we have is the one we have with ourselves
  • We can discover our true selves and are able to tell the truth...
  • Like telling people to shut-up with the old people and mother-in-law jokes already

See?  The list of good news about growing old is longer than the list of bad news!

Pipher shares her own journey and the stories of other women who are "rowing."  She chose the word 'rowing' instead of sailing or floating because, she says, we need to "make an effort, choose a positive attitude, and maintain a strong sense of direction as we travel toward winter and the land of snow and ice."

Though I think this is an important book, I do disagree with her on one point:

She talks about her "locker room," where we women of a certain age walk around naked, unselfconscious about our flabby thighs and wrinkled butts while those poor young women with the perfect bodies huddle in the corner changing their clothes because they are so self conscious about having perfect bodies.  

Well, you ain't gonna see this lady walking around in the locker room showing off her sagging boobs.  I am proud to have made it this far, and I think I am aging well, but I also do what I can to look good and refuse to give in to the inevitable until I have to.  I wear make-up, keep those grey hairs at bay (blondes DO have more fun!) and exercise and lift weights to keep the flab away as long as I can.  I may be old, but I don't want to look like I don't care how I look, and even if I am invisible to the younger generation, I am not invisible to myself. I am a longtime feminist and proud of it.  I understand the unreasonable expectations placed on women to look a  certain way, but I also feel that taking care of oneself, throwing on a bit of makeup if that enhances you, and dressing well shows the world you care about yourself.  My getting old hasn't changed that. (You can read more of my rant about this in one of my earlier blog posts - "How Not To Look Old.)"

What Pipher says "...If we can keep our wits about us, think clearly, and manage our emotions skillfully, we will experience a joyous time in our lives.  If we have planned carefully and packed properly, if we have good maps and guides, the journey can be transcendent."

Rosy the Reviewer says...just as "Reviving Ophelia" was the definitive book on teenage girls, this will surely be the definitive book about us Baby Boomer women. And no more old people and mother-in-law jokes!

Thanks for reading!

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